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<p>When this woman is annoyed with her MIL, she asks <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/11ryrc7/aita_for_telling_my_mother_in_law_that_i_dont/" target="_blank">Reddit:</a></p><h2>&quot;AITA For Telling My Mother In Law what I think of her food?&quot;</h2><blockquote> <p>My husband (23) and I (21) both come form different cultures for example I am actually an immigrat and only moved to America when I was just 12 years old.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>There is alot of things my husband and his family does differently than mine, things that I&#39;m not quite accustomed to.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>One being how they prepare and season their food, to me its just super bland and the stuff the choose of food combinations just doesn&#39;t seem to go together.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>For example My mil &gt; (mother in law) puts mayo on literally everything I even seen her make a tortilla pizza as mayo as her base which she offered to me.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Each time she offers me food I always make up some kinda excuse to avoid eating it and try to be as polite as possible about it.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>But unfortunately for me after I invited her to dinner she felt compelled to do the same for me even when I told her it&#39;s not necessary.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>The next day after the dinner we had together she started making plans with my husband, when my husband brought it up to me I told him I really didn&#39;t want to go to which he replied my mom&#39;s food is not that bad could you please just deal with it for one day.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Now in most cases I would&#39;ve just suck it up un order to maintain a good relationship with my mil but I&#39;m pregnant in my first trimester and am feeling extra nauseous, I honestly don&#39;t think I&#39;d be able to keep the food down in the condition I&#39;m in.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>My husband grew up eating her good which is maybe why he doesn&#39;t think it&#39;s that bad, I mean even my family thinks so when my mom invited her over for a family get together she brought some pasta which sauce tasted like a whole package of ketchup was dump in it.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>I ended up vanting to my sisters and mom about the issue and they all give me the advice to just be honest and my mom even said that if I don&#39;t be honest now it&#39;s something I&#39;ll have to deal with for the rest of my life.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>So I decided to call her and express to her that I&#39;m not accustomed to eating the type of foods she is use to making and since I&#39;m pregnant it&#39;ll be really hard for me to swallow because of my nausea, I even offered to teach her the recipes from my homeland that she seemed to really enjoy.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>It didn&#39;t go to well she was really offended and told me that she&#39;ll never cook for my ungrateful b*tch ass again and told my husband.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>My husband is really disappointed in me because he felt like I should&#39;ve just pretended to keep the peace and is upset that now my mil doesn&#39;t even want to invite me over again.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>I feel super bad now and seriously want to know if I&#39;m the asshole in this situation or if I was being too mean or disrespectful.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Am I in the wrong?</p> </blockquote><h2>Let&#39;s find out.</h2><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Duckieshoes101/" target="_blank">duckieshoes77</a> writes:</p><blockquote> <p>I mean, you called her up to tell her that her food sucks. You wouldn&rsquo;t be offended if she did the same thing to you? If she was like &ldquo;the food you make is really unfamiliar and I honestly can&rsquo;t stomach it at all&rdquo; wouldn&rsquo;t you be offended too? I would be.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Soft YTA. No, you don&rsquo;t need to eat her food. You don&rsquo;t have to like her food. But calling her up to tell her how you literally cannot imagine trying to choke down her food is&hellip;pretty rude.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Outrageously_Penguin/" target="_blank">outrageouslypenguin</a> writes:</p><blockquote> <p>YTA. You don&rsquo;t call someone up and tell them you don&rsquo;t like the food they cook for you. You just don&rsquo;t. If you&rsquo;re pregnant you can say you&rsquo;re nauseous the night of the dinner and just eat very little.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>But it&rsquo;s just basic manners when you&rsquo;re being hosted to pretend the food is good. Yes, you might have to &lsquo;deal with this the rest of your life&rsquo;&mdash; who cares? Occasional meals you don&rsquo;t like are not the end of the world.</p> </blockquote><h2>Looks like OP is TA. Any advice for her moving forward?</h2><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

DIL won't eat MIL's food for 'pregnant reasons,' MIL says 'I know the truth, b*tch.'

When this woman is annoyed with her MIL, she asks Reddit:&quot;AITA For Telling My Mother In Law what I think of her food?&quot; My husband (23) and I (21) both come form different cultures for example I am actually an immigrat and only moved to America when I was just 12 years old.  There is alot of things my husband and his family does differently than mine, things that I&#39;m not quite accustomed to.  One being how they prepare and season their food, to me its just super bland and the stuff the choose of food combinations just doesn&#39;t seem to go together.  For example My mil &gt; (mother in law) puts mayo on literally everything I even seen her make a tortilla pizza as mayo as her base which she offered to me.  Each time she offers me food I always make up some kinda excuse to avoid eating it and try to be as polite as possible about it.  But unfortunately for me after I invited her to dinner she felt compelled to do the same for me even when I told her it&#39;s not necessary.  The next day after the dinner we had together she started making plans with my husband, when my husband brought it up to me I told him I really didn&#39;t want to go to which he replied my mom&#39;s food is not that bad could you please just deal with it for one day.  Now in most cases I would&#39;ve just suck it up un order to maintain a good relationship with my mil but I&#39;m pregnant in my first trimester and am feeling extra nauseous, I honestly don&#39;t think I&#39;d be able to keep the food down in the condition I&#39;m in.  My husband grew up eating her good which is maybe why he doesn&#39;t think it&#39;s that bad, I mean even my family thinks so when my mom invited her over for a family get together she brought some pasta which sauce tasted like a whole package of ketchup was dump in it.  I ended up vanting to my sisters and mom about the issue and they all give me the advice to just be honest and my mom even said that if I don&#39;t be honest now it&#39;s something I&#39;ll have to deal with for the rest of my life.  So I decided to call her and express to her that I&#39;m not accustomed to eating the type of foods she is use to making and since I&#39;m pregnant it&#39;ll be really hard for me to swallow because of my nausea, I even offered to teach her the recipes from my homeland that she seemed to really enjoy.  It didn&#39;t go to well she was really offended and told me that she&#39;ll never cook for my ungrateful b*tch ass again and told my husband.  My husband is really disappointed in me because he felt like I should&#39;ve just pretended to keep the peace and is upset that now my mil doesn&#39;t even want to invite me over again.  I feel super bad now and seriously want to know if I&#39;m the asshole in this situation or if I was being too mean or disrespectful.  Am I in the wrong? Let&#39;s find out.duckieshoes77 writes: I mean, you called her up to tell her that her food sucks. You wouldn&rsquo;t be offended if she did the same thing to you? If she was like &ldquo;the food you make is really unfamiliar and I honestly can&rsquo;t stomach it at all&rdquo; wouldn&rsquo;t you be offended too? I would be.  Soft YTA. No, you don&rsquo;t need to eat her food. You don&rsquo;t have to like her food. But calling her up to tell her how you literally cannot imagine trying to choke down her food is&hellip;pretty rude. outrageouslypenguin writes: YTA. You don&rsquo;t call someone up and tell them you don&rsquo;t like the food they cook for you. You just don&rsquo;t. If you&rsquo;re pregnant you can say you&rsquo;re nauseous the night of the dinner and just eat very little.  But it&rsquo;s just basic manners when you&rsquo;re being hosted to pretend the food is good. Yes, you might have to &lsquo;deal with this the rest of your life&rsquo;&mdash; who cares? Occasional meals you don&rsquo;t like are not the end of the world. Looks like OP is TA. Any advice for her moving forward?

When this woman is annoyed with her MIL, she asks Reddit:  &quot;AITA For Telling My Mother In Law what I think of her food?&quot;   My husband (23) and I (21) both come form different cultures for example I am actually an immigrat and...