When this man is upset about his wife's proposal, he asks Reddit:
Basically this. My wife (26f) and I (32m)are expecting our first child in June. My wife is an orthodontist, and I work in tech. Both of us earn pretty decent and contribute equally to the household.
My wife has been debating whether she should take a break from her career for 2-3 years to focus on our baby.
She’s leaning more towards becoming a SAHM. I obviously would support whatever she decides, if she wants to be a SAHM for a while, that’s good and if she decides she wants to continue with her career, we have enough resources to hire a full time babysitter.
We’ve had many discussions over it and it always ends up with her wanting to be a SAHM.
Yesterday she told me that she came up with this idea. She’ll be the SAHM for the first two years and after that, I quit my job and become a stay at home dad for a while.