Man tells GF and sister to 'cover up' in front of his parents, GF says, 'how dare you.'
When this man is conflicted about his GF and her sister, he asks Reddit:
'AITA for asking my girlfriend and her sister to cover up ?'
I 26M have decided to work on my flexibility and mobility due to my injuries from playing soccer in high school/college.
My girlfriend of 2 yrs recommended I try yoga. She does yoga 3 times a week and is incredibly flexible and agile.
She told me she would talk to her sister as she's a personal trainer. I agreed, my girlfriend,myself, and her younger sister as the teacher have been doing yoga twice a week at my house for the last 3 weeks. I feel fantastic and really feel that it has been helping me.
Yesterday, my mother called me asking me if I was still going to give her the freezer I no longer used. I said yes and told her to come get it or I would take it to her the next day.
The freezer is in my garage where we do yoga. I usually do it shirtless and my girlfriend and her sister are in sports bra and sweats.
In the middle of our yoga session I get a notification that someone was at my front door, it was my mom and dad . I headed to the door while putting on a shirt but I asked my girlfriend and her sister to put on a top also.
My girlfriend gave me daggers for eyes and her sister gave me a confused 'who the hell are you' look.
I said please because my parents were coming in. I let my parents in and when I come back, they still are in their sports bras. My parents greet them and leave shortly after.
My girlfriends sister ends up leaving before we finish the session and told me that I am no longer her client because she's the teacher and she felt I disrespected her.
I was confused and asked my girlfriend what she meant. She said 'dude, she has big boobs. She gets shitted on like that all the time.
You need to apologize like now. I'll let it go but you're a dick' I told her I will clear things up with her sister but I will no apologize because I didn't mean it that way. My girlfriend doesn't believe me and thinks I was trying to police her and her sister.
I did start to think about it and her sister is a good person and am thinking I did overstep the boundaries. I don't feel I did. AITA?
Let's find out.
letstaco88 writes:
YTA. Who gives a shit if your parents see your girlfriend and her sister in sports bras? Why was this a big deal to you?
abbreviations56 writes:
NTA! You were asking out of respect for your parents nothing more. Plus you put your shirt on too - and that fact makes a difference.
I do HOWEVER think you should apologize to your girlfriend’s sister not only to keep the peace, but there seems to be a misunderstanding of your intentions plus she seems to have bad past history of how those words have impacted her.
connicuous88 writes:
NAH, but you should apologize. It's just like when a you accidentally step on someone's toes, it still stung. So an apology is in order here, but hopefully your gf's sister can see that you didn't mean any harm in it.