When this mom is concerned that she's making a parenting error, she asks Reddit:
I (33F) am a stay at home mom to two kids, one of which goes to school so I have the mornings one on one with my daughter, my husband (34M) works full time.
We are not from the town where we live so one of the ways I’ve made mom friends in the past is by meeting them at the library. The library holds events on a weekly basis so you begin to recognize people and eventually become friendly.
For the most part the parents at these events are other stay at home moms but there are a couple of stay at home dads too (or parents who just have the day or morning off, etc).
There is another child that is about the same age as my daughter so the dad and I made plans to meet at the local museum one morning to let our kids play together.