When this mom is upset with her SIL, she asks Reddit:
My SIL is getting married at the end of the month, my in laws are paying for the wedding and as a result my MIL thinks she has the right to dictate everything. She tried to pull this when my husband, Seb, and I got married, but we refused her money as we wanted to do what we wanted.
All three of my daughters are part of the wedding, MIL didn’t want my eldest two to be apart of the wedding as they aren’t Seb’s children but SIL wanted them to be apart of the wedding. The girls are 12, 9 and 6.
All three girls have very long hair. 12F’s hair reaches her knees as she rarely gets hair cuts while 9F and 6F have waist length hair. MIL hates the fact they have long hair, she hates long hair and wants to get their hair cut.