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<p>When this woman is annoyed with her husband, she asks <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/wkmtdj/aita_expecting_my_husband_to_cook_for_us_while/" target="_blank">Reddit:</a></p><h2>&quot;AITA expecting my husband to cook for us while he&#39;s not working?&quot;</h2><blockquote> <p>My husband broke his ankle and had to have surgery. He has a cast for now and crutches to get around the house and has been home less than a week.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Normally we either take turns cooking or cook together when we both get home. But since he&#39;ll be home for a number of weeks I told him he should be covering dinner for us. He said he&#39;d do what he could.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>The first day all he made is freaking grilled cheese and soup. Stuff like that that doesn&#39;t really constitute a meal or he orders take out. Once in awhile, okay, but it&#39;s been like that ever since he&#39;s been staying home.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Yesterday i asked him to do something with more sustenance like a baked dish with a side salad. Protein and vegetable sides. My husband argued and said he didn&#39;t think he&#39;d be able to do something like that because he&#39;s supposed to be staying off that foot as much as possible for the time being.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>And he brought up being in pain. I totally get the pain but I reminded him that there were ways to make a good dinner even with a broken ankle.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He has his crutches, could bring a stool or rolling chair into the kitchen, or get everything to the table and sit to do prep. Instead, he made chili in a slow cooker and had premade salads delivered from the store.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I wound up making something for myself instead and told him how I was getting fed up with him disregarding my wishes and feelings.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He told me I&#39;m being bossy and need to cut him so slack and he&#39;d go stay with a friend.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He&#39;s been there a whole day and was short with me when I&#39;ve called to get him to talk about this. I don&#39;t think I&#39;m asking too much from him to just cook dinner since he&#39;s home but AITA?</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Let&#39;s find out.</h2><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Irish_beast/" target="_blank">irishbeat66</a> writes:</p><blockquote> <p>YTA If he&#39;s sick enough to be off work he&#39;s sick enough to not be able to cook a complex meal.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>You&#39;ve driven your husband out of the house. You don&#39;t just want to talk. You want him to listen and agree with you.</p> </blockquote><p><a href="http://This is the first post after years of lurking that I'm afraid of getting banned over for sharing my real thoughts. This poor man. I've been in a relationship like this and it is actually dangerous. Her lack of empathy is terrifying. Super bad vibes. OP you are beyond a doubt an AH. YTA YTA YTA. The fact that you can't see it make this even scarier ffs." target="_blank">lsdidiot</a> writes:</p><blockquote> <p>This is the first post after years of lurking that I&#39;m afraid of getting banned over for sharing my real thoughts. This poor man. I&#39;ve been in a relationship like this and it is actually dangerous.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Her lack of empathy is terrifying. Super bad vibes. OP you are beyond a doubt an AH. YTA YTA YTA. The fact that you can&#39;t see it make this even scarier ffs.</p> </blockquote><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Disneyland4Ever/" target="_blank">disneyland4eva</a> writes:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>YTA. Your husband isn&rsquo;t on vacation, he&rsquo;s home because he broke his ankle. Not only that, he had SURGERY for it and it&rsquo;s the FIRST WEEK. He needs to be resting with his leg elevated as much as possible right now.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Do you know how much energy it takes the body to heal from surgery and broken bones? A LOT.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>And you want him to mess his recovery up because you think he should be cooking dinner? Do you want him to ever be able to walk again? You&rsquo;re being ridiculous.</p> </blockquote><h2>Well, looks like OP is the worst wife ever? Is she being a major AH? What do YOU think?</h2><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Wife tells husband to 'please cook,' he says, 'you know my condition, don't be bossy.'

When this woman is annoyed with her husband, she asks Reddit:&quot;AITA expecting my husband to cook for us while he&#39;s not working?&quot; My husband broke his ankle and had to have surgery. He has a cast for now and crutches to get around the house and has been home less than a week.  Normally we either take turns cooking or cook together when we both get home. But since he&#39;ll be home for a number of weeks I told him he should be covering dinner for us. He said he&#39;d do what he could.  The first day all he made is freaking grilled cheese and soup. Stuff like that that doesn&#39;t really constitute a meal or he orders take out. Once in awhile, okay, but it&#39;s been like that ever since he&#39;s been staying home.  Yesterday i asked him to do something with more sustenance like a baked dish with a side salad. Protein and vegetable sides. My husband argued and said he didn&#39;t think he&#39;d be able to do something like that because he&#39;s supposed to be staying off that foot as much as possible for the time being.  And he brought up being in pain. I totally get the pain but I reminded him that there were ways to make a good dinner even with a broken ankle.  He has his crutches, could bring a stool or rolling chair into the kitchen, or get everything to the table and sit to do prep. Instead, he made chili in a slow cooker and had premade salads delivered from the store.  I wound up making something for myself instead and told him how I was getting fed up with him disregarding my wishes and feelings.  He told me I&#39;m being bossy and need to cut him so slack and he&#39;d go stay with a friend.  He&#39;s been there a whole day and was short with me when I&#39;ve called to get him to talk about this. I don&#39;t think I&#39;m asking too much from him to just cook dinner since he&#39;s home but AITA? Let&#39;s find out.irishbeat66 writes: YTA If he&#39;s sick enough to be off work he&#39;s sick enough to not be able to cook a complex meal.  You&#39;ve driven your husband out of the house. You don&#39;t just want to talk. You want him to listen and agree with you. lsdidiot writes: This is the first post after years of lurking that I&#39;m afraid of getting banned over for sharing my real thoughts. This poor man. I&#39;ve been in a relationship like this and it is actually dangerous.  Her lack of empathy is terrifying. Super bad vibes. OP you are beyond a doubt an AH. YTA YTA YTA. The fact that you can&#39;t see it make this even scarier ffs. disneyland4eva writes: YTA. Your husband isn&rsquo;t on vacation, he&rsquo;s home because he broke his ankle. Not only that, he had SURGERY for it and it&rsquo;s the FIRST WEEK. He needs to be resting with his leg elevated as much as possible right now.  Do you know how much energy it takes the body to heal from surgery and broken bones? A LOT.  And you want him to mess his recovery up because you think he should be cooking dinner? Do you want him to ever be able to walk again? You&rsquo;re being ridiculous. Well, looks like OP is the worst wife ever? Is she being a major AH? What do YOU think?

When this woman is annoyed with her husband, she asks Reddit:  &quot;AITA expecting my husband to cook for us while he&#39;s not working?&quot;   My husband broke his ankle and had to have surgery. He has a cast for now and crutches to get...