Wife locks door during showers to keep husband from walking in; he misses flight. AITA?
"AITA for making my husband late when he had a flight to catch because I locked the bathroom door?"
Before I had a baby I used to leave the bathroom door unlocked while I showered or changed. Now I feel insecure so I tend to lock the door when I’m showering because I don’t want my husband to just walk in like he used to.
He was leaving on a business trip early Sunday morning and I went into the shower right after him. He tried to come in a few minutes after I got in there because he left his phone in the bathroom but I had locked the door.
I didn’t hear him knock at first and then I had shampoo in my hair so I made him wait until I had washed it off and grabbed a towel before I opened the door.
He was already running late as he was helping with our son so he was annoyed at me. He asked me why I’d locked the door and why I didn’t just open it straightaway since I knew he had a flight to catch.
We had an argument because he told me to stop locking the door because this wasn’t the first time I’d made him late and I said I would keep doing it. Now he's not talking to me. AITA?
talkingtomoon writes:
It’s kind of entitled and annoying reading this post. Like lol it’s totally fine to make my husband late and spend extra money for him to get to his destination. Can you imagine be so immature? It’s not cute. YTA.
ladygreyicedtea writes:
Yeah I don't understand that. Washing her hair isn't a time sensitive thing. This is her husband who has presumably seen her naked before since he, you know, impregnated her and all she needed to do was unlock the door so he could run in for 2 seconds to grab his phone.
princesstoken87 writes:
Idk. NTA. It's hard having body dysmorphia. I feel like we should cut this wife some slack?? Maybe I'm crazy.