When this mom is annoyed with her parents, she asks Reddit:
When I (39F) picked up my 15mo from my parents house yesterday after work (my mom (65F) watches her ~20 hours a week for free) her poopy diaper was wrapped up in a bag waiting for me with the car seat.
I put the car seat in the car brought the diaper into the house and asked if they wanted me to take it to the outside trash can for them. I honestly thought maybe they got distracted and it accidentally ended up in the car seat.
They said no, take it with me and throw it away in my trash can bc their bins had just been emptied that day. I thought that was ridiculous and said no, but I’ll throw it away in your bins outside and that’s what I did.