It's reasonable to have high expectations for your wedding day. Especially knowing how much those things cost to put on. But the pressure to have a "perfect" wedding often causes brides (and some grooms) to behave in ways that, to some, might seem unacceptable, or even straight-up sociopathic.
I (f28) am getting married next week, Invitations are out, wedding planning was complete and everything is going according to plane. However, My sister (f31) just had a miscarriage and mom told me that she told her she decided to not come to the wedding.
I was dumfounded, I called my sister to talk about it and she said she is exhausted and doesn't feel like attending, I told her that this is my wedding not some family dinner she and her husband decided to skip.