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<h2>Stepmoms and stepdaughters don&#39;t always have the best relationships, just ask Cinderella. Reddit user<a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/AttackPoodle94/"> u/AttackPoodle94</a> loves her stepmom, however. She couldn&#39;t be happier that this special woman is marrying her dad after 15 years of dating.</h2><p>The one thing this daughter is not happy about is her stepmom&#39;s bridesmaid saying she&#39;s planning to attend the wedding in a dress that matches the bride&#39;s. After refusing to back down, this stepdaughter threatened to soak the bridesmaid in an entire bottle of red wine if she shows up wearing that dress.</p><h2>She&#39;s asking the internet, &quot;<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/uo1xot/aita_for_threatening_to_pour_wine_on_someones/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=ios_app&amp;utm_name=iossmf">AITA</a> (Am I The As*hole) for threatening to pour wine on someone&#39;s dress?&quot;</h2><blockquote> <p>My (28 NB) dad (50M) and step-mum (60F) are getting married later on this year. They&#39;ve been together for almost 15 years and I&#39;m so so happy for them.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>They&#39;re keeping things really low key and simple. I will be standing with my dad and my step mums friend Jill (64F) will be standing with her. I picked a dress to wear and my step mum has seen it and loved it, my dress is cream but she doesn&#39;t mind since she is wearing pink with a champagne pashmina.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>We went out a few weeks ago and got matching tattoos and lunch, during this lunch, Jill messaged and she&#39;d found a dress and sent a picture. It&#39;s pink and gold.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>She has seen my step mum&#39;s dress. It&#39;s the same colour. Honestly, the dress is also REALLY ugly, like really really ugly. Also, I wouldn&#39;t say totally appropriate for a 64-year-old woman, but that&#39;s just my opinion.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>My step mum tried to be nice about telling her no, that she&#39;s the bride and her dress will overshadow her, that she&#39;d prefer she picked a different colour etc. Jill just brushed it all off saying no one would be looking at her and not to be silly. My step mum is not a confrontational person and won&#39;t just say no.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I am. And I will. After a few days of this I messaged Jill and said no, you&#39;re not wearing the dress, you&#39;ve been told no, you&#39;re making my step-mum uncomfortable, no. She messages me back with the same shit and I warn her that if she DARED show up in that dress I would pour a bottle of red wine on her.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>The whole damn thing. So find something else. No response. I visited my friend in another part of the country and we went to a shop and I sent her a picture of their red wine selection asking if she had a preference. She messaged me back saying she wasn&#39;t wearing the dress, I said that was good to hear.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I told my mum about it and she agreed with me but my grandma, stepdad and aunt said I took it WAY too far. I should have left it to step mum. Step mum hasn&#39;t really said anything, just that she&#39;s glad Jill changed her mind and dad said it would be a shame to waste wine.</p> </blockquote><p>Cheers to this bold and badass chick for standing up to her stepmom&#39;s frienemy. Jill should have known better than to wear a dress that would overshadow the bride. It sounds like Jill isn&#39;t the best friend her stepmom thought she was, so it&#39;s lucky she has her stepdaughter taking her side and defending her.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Sending the picture of the wine section was pretty hilarious, and it got her point across too. Hopefully, Jill got the message and this daughter doesn&#39;t have to spill any wine on her dad and stepmom&#39;s happy occasion.</p><p>Reddit users were in agreement. They applaud this stepdaughter for defending her stepmom. What do you think?</p><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/suckin_diesel/">suckin_diesel</a></p><blockquote> <p>NTA, Jill needed to hear that - and fair play for standing up for stepmother, I&#39;m sure she appreciates it more than she&#39;s letting on!</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/producerofconfusion/">producerofconfusion</a></p><blockquote> <p>Show up with a box of Franzia strapped to your back with a super soaker attached, Ghostbuster style.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/randomusername71175/">randomusername71175</a></p><blockquote> <p>I love love L❤️VE people who stand up for the good souls in this world, too many people would eat a mouthful of shit just to make someone else unhappy and everyone just let&#39;s them so they don&#39;t have to be bothered. Makes my heart burst too see OP ready to go all &quot;attack dog&quot; on someone who was making her step mum feel overshadowed.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/LostinNerdWorld/">LostinNerdWorld</a></p><blockquote> <p>I agree with you completely. Good for you OP. NTA. You could maybe hire yourself out for other weddings to keep unruly guests in line. If this is something you&#39;d like to pursue, let me know - I have some work for you.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/nightlyraver/">nightlyraver</a></p><blockquote> <p>I got a good chuckle out of this story. That&#39;s really funny sending the photo of the wine section. Not very tactful, but Jill needed to be told what&#39;s up. NTA, but not at all polite either!</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Loststrawberrypie/">Loststrawberrypie</a></p><blockquote> <p>NTA sometimes you need to be an AH because someone else can&#39;t. This was one of those times 🤣</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/azaleasonnet/">azaleasonnet</a></p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>NTA. Bravo for standing up for your step-mum. The fact that it had to come to that speaks volumes about Jill. Apologies to your grandmother, but family is worth spilling wine for.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/SnazzySusieQ/">SnazzySusieQ</a></p><blockquote> <p><strong>NTA.</strong> More folks need to do this to those who are jealous and want to upstage the bride. Let people have their day! It&#39;s a single day and then you can go back to hogging the attention the day after.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TemptingPenguin369/">TemptingPenguin369</a>]</p><blockquote> <p>NTA. Sometimes drastic measures are called for. You and stepmum should get matching tattoos of a bottle of red wine!</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman asks if she was wrong to threaten to pour red wine on stepmom's bridesmaid.

Stepmoms and stepdaughters don&#39;t always have the best relationships, just ask Cinderella. Reddit user u/AttackPoodle94 loves her stepmom, however. She couldn&#39;t be happier that this special woman is marrying her dad after 15 years of dating.The one thing this daughter is not happy about is her stepmom&#39;s bridesmaid saying she&#39;s planning to attend the wedding in a dress that matches the bride&#39;s. After refusing to back down, this stepdaughter threatened to soak the bridesmaid in an entire bottle of red wine if she shows up wearing that dress.She&#39;s asking the internet, &quot;AITA (Am I The As*hole) for threatening to pour wine on someone&#39;s dress?&quot; My (28 NB) dad (50M) and step-mum (60F) are getting married later on this year. They&#39;ve been together for almost 15 years and I&#39;m so so happy for them.  They&#39;re keeping things really low key and simple. I will be standing with my dad and my step mums friend Jill (64F) will be standing with her. I picked a dress to wear and my step mum has seen it and loved it, my dress is cream but she doesn&#39;t mind since she is wearing pink with a champagne pashmina.  We went out a few weeks ago and got matching tattoos and lunch, during this lunch, Jill messaged and she&#39;d found a dress and sent a picture. It&#39;s pink and gold.  She has seen my step mum&#39;s dress. It&#39;s the same colour. Honestly, the dress is also REALLY ugly, like really really ugly. Also, I wouldn&#39;t say totally appropriate for a 64-year-old woman, but that&#39;s just my opinion.  My step mum tried to be nice about telling her no, that she&#39;s the bride and her dress will overshadow her, that she&#39;d prefer she picked a different colour etc. Jill just brushed it all off saying no one would be looking at her and not to be silly. My step mum is not a confrontational person and won&#39;t just say no.  I am. And I will. After a few days of this I messaged Jill and said no, you&#39;re not wearing the dress, you&#39;ve been told no, you&#39;re making my step-mum uncomfortable, no. She messages me back with the same shit and I warn her that if she DARED show up in that dress I would pour a bottle of red wine on her.  The whole damn thing. So find something else. No response. I visited my friend in another part of the country and we went to a shop and I sent her a picture of their red wine selection asking if she had a preference. She messaged me back saying she wasn&#39;t wearing the dress, I said that was good to hear.  I told my mum about it and she agreed with me but my grandma, stepdad and aunt said I took it WAY too far. I should have left it to step mum. Step mum hasn&#39;t really said anything, just that she&#39;s glad Jill changed her mind and dad said it would be a shame to waste wine. Cheers to this bold and badass chick for standing up to her stepmom&#39;s frienemy. Jill should have known better than to wear a dress that would overshadow the bride. It sounds like Jill isn&#39;t the best friend her stepmom thought she was, so it&#39;s lucky she has her stepdaughter taking her side and defending her.Sending the picture of the wine section was pretty hilarious, and it got her point across too. Hopefully, Jill got the message and this daughter doesn&#39;t have to spill any wine on her dad and stepmom&#39;s happy occasion.Reddit users were in agreement. They applaud this stepdaughter for defending her stepmom. What do you think?suckin_diesel NTA, Jill needed to hear that - and fair play for standing up for stepmother, I&#39;m sure she appreciates it more than she&#39;s letting on! producerofconfusion Show up with a box of Franzia strapped to your back with a super soaker attached, Ghostbuster style. randomusername71175 I love love L❤️VE people who stand up for the good souls in this world, too many people would eat a mouthful of shit just to make someone else unhappy and everyone just let&#39;s them so they don&#39;t have to be bothered. Makes my heart burst too see OP ready to go all &quot;attack dog&quot; on someone who was making her step mum feel overshadowed. LostinNerdWorld I agree with you completely. Good for you OP. NTA. You could maybe hire yourself out for other weddings to keep unruly guests in line. If this is something you&#39;d like to pursue, let me know - I have some work for you. nightlyraver I got a good chuckle out of this story. That&#39;s really funny sending the photo of the wine section. Not very tactful, but Jill needed to be told what&#39;s up. NTA, but not at all polite either! Loststrawberrypie NTA sometimes you need to be an AH because someone else can&#39;t. This was one of those times 🤣 azaleasonnet NTA. Bravo for standing up for your step-mum. The fact that it had to come to that speaks volumes about Jill. Apologies to your grandmother, but family is worth spilling wine for. SnazzySusieQ NTA. More folks need to do this to those who are jealous and want to upstage the bride. Let people have their day! It&#39;s a single day and then you can go back to hogging the attention the day after. TemptingPenguin369] NTA. Sometimes drastic measures are called for. You and stepmum should get matching tattoos of a bottle of red wine! 

Stepmoms and stepdaughters don&#39;t always have the best relationships, just ask Cinderella. Reddit user u/AttackPoodle94 loves her stepmom, however. She couldn&#39;t be happier that this special woman is marrying her dad after 15 years...

Woman asks if she was wrong to threaten to pour red wine on stepmom's bridesmaid.

Stepmoms and stepdaughters don't always have the best relationships, just ask Cinderella. Reddit user u/AttackPoodle94 loves her stepmom, however. She couldn't be happier that this special woman is marrying her dad after 15 years of dating.

She's asking the internet, "AITA (Am I The As*hole) for threatening to pour wine on someone's dress?"