It's nice when your friends want to help out with your wedding — but sometimes it can feel like their offer of help is purely self-serving.
One bride took to Reddit to ask if it's okay to turn down her friend's offer to sing at her wedding reception as a "gift" — especially after her other friends told her she should give the wannabe songbird a chance.
One of my friends, Abigail, is a singer. She has a very gospel-ly kinda voice but as awful as it sounds all I think when she sings is ‘this is warbly’ and I have to fight to keep a straight face. She’s not awful, but it’s really not my cup of tea.
Obviously I would never say that to her but I do encourage her passion because one day she wants to turn her hobby into a career. I always respond in the group chat with constructive feedback when she sends us voice clips asking for it and if it’s very bad I’ll just stay quiet and not say anything at all.