It's a tricky question for anyone who travels: should the people in your group who fall behind get left behind?
And it's especially tricky if the person who falls behind happens to be your significant other.
One man is asking Reddit for advice after he left his disorganized girlfriend behind at the airport and went ahead on a two-week couple's trip to Asia without her. She's furious with him, but he thinks he's in the right — especially because she's notoriously disorganized and relies on her boo to do everything for her.
About 20 years ago my dad left my mum to start a new family when I was 11. My mum didn't know English, had no clue how to even pay bills but somehow managed to pull everything together. She's a fucking legend, but this experience imprinted on me the need that any partner I have in future has to be self sufficient and capable of looking after themselves.