Mothers-in-law: can't live with 'em...that's it. You just can't live with 'em.
Mothers-in-law are consistent winners in Most Passive-Aggressive Family Member competitions, excelling with special talents such as Giving Unsolicited Advice and Assuring You That You're Not Good Enough.
A mom who is eight weeks postpartum was NOT in the mood to deal with her mother-in-law, who has a habit of showing up unannounced and who refused and to listen after being confronted about it.
The daughter-in-law explained on "Am I The A**hole?":
I (32F) had a baby eight weeks ago and since then my MIL has had a habit of popping by without calling first. I have anxiety at the best of times but it's a bit worse right now and when she comes over (particularly when my husband is at work and not there to mediate).