There may be no "right" way to grieve, but it's safe to say that getting promptly remarried to your therapist is a "wrong" way.
A concerned mom wrote into "Am I The A**hole?" after her widowed son started planning her wedding to—you guessed it—a woman who used to be her therapist.
My son and I used to be very close, I had him young and his dad didn't end up sticking around so for a long time it was just us. It made the teen years a breeze because he was always telling me what happened and what parties he went to and who he was seeing so I was never worried about him and trusted him a lot.
When he was 17 he met a girl I'll call Sophie. It was pretty clear he were head over heels for each other and she ended up moving into the attic apartment of the home I owned at the time along with him, because her home situation wasn't great(dad was abusive, mum was in jail). Probably partially because I always wanted a daughter (I was past the point of a safe pregnancy by the time I met my husband), and because of my great relationship with my son I ended up very close to Sophie.