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<p>When it comes to breakups, only one person gets the house, but who gets the neighborhood?</p><p>A woman posted on <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/kezmqp/aita_for_moving_into_the_same_neighbourhood_as_my/">Am I The A**hole?</a> asking if she&#39;s a jerk for temporarily living in the general geographic area as her ex&#39;s house, a house she picked out that he now lives in with the woman he cheated on her with.</p><p>Here&#39;s the backstory:</p><blockquote> <p>My engagement to &ldquo;Matt&rdquo; ended after I found out he was cheating on me with &ldquo;Claire&rdquo;. He ended up marrying Claire after I broke up with him. During our engagement, we were looking to move into a new house. Everything was ready for us to move in, we just had to sign the paperwork. Matt ended up moving into the house with Claire.</p> </blockquote><p>Cut to present day:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>This all happened 4 years ago, and I&rsquo;ve moved on since. My fianc&eacute; and I were living in his house until two months ago. He decided he wanted to demolish and rebuild it, so we had to find another place to stay whilst it&rsquo;s being built. We ended up finding a house in the same neighbourhood as my ex and his wife. When Matt and I originally found the house he now lives in with his wife, I did ALL of the work finding it. I absolutely loved that house and I was more upset about not being able to move into it than finding out they were getting married. Also, the owner told us he would only rent the place to us for a year because he was planning to sell it so I didn&rsquo;t actually think they would still be living there.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The ex&#39;s mistress-turned-wife is incredibly jealous and suspicious, confronting the poster multiple times and in increasingly embarrassing ways.</p><blockquote> <p>We&rsquo;ve lived here for two months now. The first month was completely peaceful and I didn&rsquo;t see my ex or his wife even once. In the second month, I became more friendly with some of my neighbours and they introduced me to the other neighbours including Claire. That evening, she came to my house and went on a long rant about how I was trying to get Matt back and I was a stalker. After that, I started seeing Matt a lot and he wouldn&rsquo;t stop making conversation with me.</p> <p>Things got really heated a few days ago when Claire &ldquo;caught&rdquo; Matt talking to me. She screamed at me in the middle of the road and it was super embarrassing. Claire&rsquo;s friends and family have now taken to social media to pressure me to move because I&rsquo;m ruining a good marriage.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The poster wonders if she&#39;s The A**hole because there <em>are </em>other neighborhoods. She has also asked her ex &quot;Matt&quot; to stop talking to her in the hopes that &quot;Claire&quot; will stop talking to her.</p><blockquote> <p>Here&rsquo;s why I might be an AH, our lease is month to month so we could technically move as soon as we find a new place but I don&rsquo;t want to. I feel like they already stole one house from me, why should I give this one up too? I&rsquo;ve also asked Matt, and even my fianc&eacute; has told him, to stop talking to me but I can&rsquo;t control what he does.</p> </blockquote><p>The Reddit jury contends that The A**hole here is not the woman who simply wants to live in her desired neighborhood but rather the one who is trying to threaten and cyberbully her into leaving.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>&quot;NTA. It sounds like Matt&#39;s not over you and Claire knows it. You are NOT obligated to move because they can&#39;t stand you being there,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/katmck14/">katmck14</a> suggests.</p><p>&quot;If he wanted to keep you he shouldn&#39;t have cheated, and if she didn&#39;t want a cheating husband she shouldn&#39;t have married a known cheater. This is 100% not your problem.&quot;</p><p>&quot;They don&#39;t own the neighborhood...Seems like &#39;Claire&#39; is the one who can&#39;t move on. Probably insecure because she was once a third party,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/jinyuki_91/">jinyuki_91</a> added.</p><p>&quot;NTA, but stop talking to Matt,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/value_null/">value_null</a> succinctly put it.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman asks if she was wrong to move into ex's neighborhood after his wife bullies her.

When it comes to breakups, only one person gets the house, but who gets the neighborhood?A woman posted on Am I The A**hole? asking if she&#39;s a jerk for temporarily living in the general geographic area as her ex&#39;s house, a house she picked out that he now lives in with the woman he cheated on her with.Here&#39;s the backstory: My engagement to &ldquo;Matt&rdquo; ended after I found out he was cheating on me with &ldquo;Claire&rdquo;. He ended up marrying Claire after I broke up with him. During our engagement, we were looking to move into a new house. Everything was ready for us to move in, we just had to sign the paperwork. Matt ended up moving into the house with Claire. Cut to present day: This all happened 4 years ago, and I&rsquo;ve moved on since. My fianc&eacute; and I were living in his house until two months ago. He decided he wanted to demolish and rebuild it, so we had to find another place to stay whilst it&rsquo;s being built. We ended up finding a house in the same neighbourhood as my ex and his wife. When Matt and I originally found the house he now lives in with his wife, I did ALL of the work finding it. I absolutely loved that house and I was more upset about not being able to move into it than finding out they were getting married. Also, the owner told us he would only rent the place to us for a year because he was planning to sell it so I didn&rsquo;t actually think they would still be living there. The ex&#39;s mistress-turned-wife is incredibly jealous and suspicious, confronting the poster multiple times and in increasingly embarrassing ways. We&rsquo;ve lived here for two months now. The first month was completely peaceful and I didn&rsquo;t see my ex or his wife even once. In the second month, I became more friendly with some of my neighbours and they introduced me to the other neighbours including Claire. That evening, she came to my house and went on a long rant about how I was trying to get Matt back and I was a stalker. After that, I started seeing Matt a lot and he wouldn&rsquo;t stop making conversation with me. Things got really heated a few days ago when Claire &ldquo;caught&rdquo; Matt talking to me. She screamed at me in the middle of the road and it was super embarrassing. Claire&rsquo;s friends and family have now taken to social media to pressure me to move because I&rsquo;m ruining a good marriage. The poster wonders if she&#39;s The A**hole because there are other neighborhoods. She has also asked her ex &quot;Matt&quot; to stop talking to her in the hopes that &quot;Claire&quot; will stop talking to her. Here&rsquo;s why I might be an AH, our lease is month to month so we could technically move as soon as we find a new place but I don&rsquo;t want to. I feel like they already stole one house from me, why should I give this one up too? I&rsquo;ve also asked Matt, and even my fianc&eacute; has told him, to stop talking to me but I can&rsquo;t control what he does. The Reddit jury contends that The A**hole here is not the woman who simply wants to live in her desired neighborhood but rather the one who is trying to threaten and cyberbully her into leaving.&quot;NTA. It sounds like Matt&#39;s not over you and Claire knows it. You are NOT obligated to move because they can&#39;t stand you being there,&quot; katmck14 suggests.&quot;If he wanted to keep you he shouldn&#39;t have cheated, and if she didn&#39;t want a cheating husband she shouldn&#39;t have married a known cheater. This is 100% not your problem.&quot;&quot;They don&#39;t own the neighborhood...Seems like &#39;Claire&#39; is the one who can&#39;t move on. Probably insecure because she was once a third party,&quot; jinyuki_91 added.&quot;NTA, but stop talking to Matt,&quot; value_null succinctly put it.

When it comes to breakups, only one person gets the house, but who gets the neighborhood?  A woman posted on Am I The A**hole? asking if she&#39;s a jerk for temporarily living in the general geographic area as her ex&#39;s house, a house...