Is it a bride's right to put her bridesmaids in clothes that make them uncomfortable?
A woman appealed to "Am I The A**hole?" for a ruling when her sister pushed her out of her bridal party for wanting to wear a suit instead of a dress.
I (F22) told my sister (F35) that I would absolutely be her bridesmaid for her wedding. I’m her only sister, and it was a destination wedding. We start talking about the wedding here and there. One night I get a text from her showing me a picture of the dress she was looking at. I agreed and told her it was a nice color. I’m unsure of how it got brought up, but I told her that I was not wearing a dress for the wedding. This shouldn’t have been a shocker at all. I haven’t worn a dress since my freshman year of high school. I wore a white suit to my graduation. I’ve always dressed more masculine because that’s the only thing I’m ever comfortable in. Especially, with having body dystrophia in my past and being hospitalized for mental issue three times in my past I would think that not wearing a dress wouldn’t be a big deal. Everyone knows my preferences, but apparently I was wrong.