You would think that by now have heard of all of the ways that somebody could be a god-awful parent, but there are some creative and conniving people out there.
She wants to adopt a teenager so she has a live-in babysitter for her kids.
A woman blew the whistle on her sister's ulterior motive for applying to foster a teenager, and she asked "Am I The A**hole?" whether she's, well, an a**hole.
In a throwaway account with the username FosterFix, she wrote:
I'm a 28F and I have a sister (36F) For the sake of story, I'll just call Jane. Jane is married to "Bob" and they have two kids, boy and a girl. My niece and nephew are wonderful kids and no trouble at all. They fight as siblings do but nothing big. I love them. Now for about two years, I did live with my sister. It was a miserable time that really effected our relationship. She saw me as free labor, money and babysitting. Even when I managed to get a small part time job, she demanded I hand over nearly half my pay or get out. It was hell as she took completely advantage of me. I moved out as soon as I could and we have little contact outside of family gatherings.
Now after I moved out, she started complaining how "She has no help with the kids and never gets a break!" I babysit sometimes but I have made it clear, just cause I am off work, doesn't mean I want an 8 hour day with my niece and nephew.