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<p>A viral tweet showing a guy canceling a date because a woman suggested meeting at Starbucks spawned a debate about dealbreakers and first date locations.</p><p>Twitter user <a href="https://twitter.com/Coll3enG/status/1492985988875841537">Colleen</a> shared the conversation she had with a guy named Matt, who insists that people who go to Starbucks are on a different &quot;wavelength&quot; than him.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/Coll3enG/status/1492985988875841537" height="264" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-123535-pm-95WwKo.jpg" width="838" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/Coll3enG/status/1492985988875841537">Twitter</a></div></figure><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/Coll3enG/status/1492985988875841537" height="1651" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/flgm17wveai71wk-ousXtW.jpg" width="946" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/Coll3enG/status/1492985988875841537">Twitter</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Colleen called Matt&#39;s behavior &quot;insane,&quot; and he&#39;s not the only &quot;insane&quot; one. Some men defended his anti-Starbucks insistence.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/thebalmainboy/status/1493012866844475394" height="410" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-124027-pm-Z44HXt.jpg" width="846" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/thebalmainboy/status/1493012866844475394">Twitter</a></div></figure><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/eetorres22/status/1493069510147915781" height="264" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-124413-pm-4ogaLg.jpg" width="840" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/eetorres22/status/1493069510147915781">Twitter</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Women in the comments explained to the men that just because a woman suggests Starbucks, it doesn&#39;t mean that she loves the chain or even thinks that the coffee is drinkable&mdash;it means that she wants to meet a stranger from the internet in a popular, well-lit place, surrounded by witnesses.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/mamax2b/status/1493015645843345408" height="350" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-124909-pm-cImssI.jpg" width="830" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/mamax2b/status/1493015645843345408">Twitter</a></div></figure><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/sunkpierra/status/1493236537198264320" height="400" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-124959-pm-E2P45P.jpg" width="844" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/sunkpierra/status/1493236537198264320">Twitter</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/ladymacbethany/status/1493023027201814528" height="346" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-124751-pm-ONXZ6R.jpg" width="846" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/ladymacbethany/status/1493023027201814528">Twitter</a></div></figure><p>Women are criticized for suggesting a location with &quot;high standards,&quot; and criticized for suggesting somewhere casual. It&#39;s &quot;damned if you do, damned if you don&#39;t.&quot;</p><div> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">It&rsquo;s funny because women can never win with these guys. If we want to out to a nice fancy restaurant we are gold diggers but if we want to just meet at Starbucks we are low class like what <a href="https://t.co/nRzcfvcWoT">pic.twitter.com/nRzcfvcWoT</a></p> &mdash; al (@easygingerr) <a href="https://twitter.com/easygingerr/status/1493523584337260550?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 15, 2022</a></blockquote> <script async="" charset="utf-8" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/jnvgerow/status/1493186859572289541" height="484" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-125646-pm-etZ6SJ.jpg" width="840" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/jnvgerow/status/1493186859572289541">Twitter</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/reptillianem/status/1493239224417591296" height="318" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-125728-pm-dbcDqu.jpg" width="834" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/reptillianem/status/1493239224417591296">Twitter</a></div></figure><p>This Matt could have gone about his criticism differently, had he not prioritized his judgmental rant over going on a date.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/undrcoverninjax/status/1493010338198867973" height="356" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-125546-pm-N6Y1mP.jpg" width="840" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/undrcoverninjax/status/1493010338198867973">Twitter</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><p>James summed the essential conflict up nicely:</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/jsdaviso/status/1493238456654258183" height="442" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/screen-shot-2022-02-17-at-124528-pm-hAWyjX.jpg" width="846" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/jsdaviso/status/1493238456654258183">Twitter</a></div></figure><p>Congratulations, James, on being the only dude in the thread who gets it.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Guy cancels date because woman suggested meeting at Starbucks, sparking debate.

A viral tweet showing a guy canceling a date because a woman suggested meeting at Starbucks spawned a debate about dealbreakers and first date locations.Twitter user Colleen shared the conversation she had with a guy named Matt, who insists that people who go to Starbucks are on a different &quot;wavelength&quot; than him.TwitterTwitterColleen called Matt&#39;s behavior &quot;insane,&quot; and he&#39;s not the only &quot;insane&quot; one. Some men defended his anti-Starbucks insistence.TwitterTwitterWomen in the comments explained to the men that just because a woman suggests Starbucks, it doesn&#39;t mean that she loves the chain or even thinks that the coffee is drinkable&mdash;it means that she wants to meet a stranger from the internet in a popular, well-lit place, surrounded by witnesses.TwitterTwitterTwitterWomen are criticized for suggesting a location with &quot;high standards,&quot; and criticized for suggesting somewhere casual. It&#39;s &quot;damned if you do, damned if you don&#39;t.&quot;  It&rsquo;s funny because women can never win with these guys. If we want to out to a nice fancy restaurant we are gold diggers but if we want to just meet at Starbucks we are low class like what pic.twitter.com/nRzcfvcWoT &mdash; al (@easygingerr) February 15, 2022 TwitterTwitterThis Matt could have gone about his criticism differently, had he not prioritized his judgmental rant over going on a date.Twitter James summed the essential conflict up nicely:TwitterCongratulations, James, on being the only dude in the thread who gets it.

A viral tweet showing a guy canceling a date because a woman suggested meeting at Starbucks spawned a debate about dealbreakers and first date locations.  Twitter user Colleen shared the conversation she had with a guy named Matt, who...