A guy asked "Am I The A**hole?" whether he was wrong to tell his wife that she should lose 15 pounds before she gets pregnant, in order to protect her health. Before you say, "of course a non-doctor dude who tells his wife to lose weight is an a**hole," read the details and then...you will be reaffirmed that you're right.
My wife (30) and I (31M) have been married for 5 years. We’ve always wanted kids and were discussing having a kid once everything calms down. The problem is that for the past year my wife gained a few extra pounds probably because she started working longer hours in a high stress environment. She recently started working out at home; trying to get back in shape since both of us have been working from home lately.
My wife is 5'2 and weighs about 140lbs (estimation) so she's overweight for her height. I told my wife I think she needs to lose at least 15lbs before she gets pregnant because it might cause health complications for her and the baby during labor. She got really offended and called me an a**hole.