If you think you've never been on a badd date, then you should consult the other person on just how big a disaster that evening was.
Bad dates are a fact of life—a rite of passage as people search for love and companionship and something to do on Saturday night. People shared the stories of their nights out that make them cringe to this day, and you will both tense up at the awkwardness and then feel uplifted by the schadenfreude.
This one was my fault.
We met on OK Cupid, and decided on a place to meet for lunch. She's overweight, but definitely not obese. Very nice, seemed like just the sweetest person. She talked about her job (nurse) and some random goings-on in her life. All's well.
We ordered, and got our food. She started talking about how she had recently lost a ton of weight- diet and exercise... doing it right. She ordered... I think it was chicken fried steak and mashed potatoes? It was something very heavy. She started eating it very happily; it was clearly an indulgence.