Who would have thought that one of the most romantic posts on Reddit right now would be called "[Am I The A**hole] for saying I never wanted kids while I'm pregnant?"
A pregnant woman who goes by the screenname Unlucky-Kitt3n posted on Am I The A**hole after a conversation with other women got awkward. Because of a traumatic childhood, she didn't grow up fantasizing about having children, but when she met her husband, everything changed.
A little background, I never had the best home life growing up and it made me kind of a cynical a-hole. All my life I said I'd never want to bring kids into a world so crappy and I was insecure about screwing up my kids the way my parents screwed me up. Then I met my husband. He has always wanted more than anything to be a dad. We had plenty of discussions about it before we got married. He is the sweetest, kindest man in the world and he has helped me deal with a lot of my demons. So basically, even if I'm a terrible mom, at least they'll have a good dad. He's an amazing partner and that helped me change my mind. We are now expecting our first child this July and I'm super excited.