An "Am I The A**hole?" post about an obnoxious bride gets even more damning with each sentence. A woman took to the forum to ask if she was wrong to refuse to go to a wedding—for which she was asked to be Maid of Honor–because her husband is not invited. While there are no good reasons not to include your best friend's partner in a day that will be big for you both, it is absolutely ridiculous to ban a man because you don't like how they wood look in pictures.
The would-be Maid of Honor wrote:
My (30f) friend (31f) is getting married in August. She invited me and my husband to the wedding already in October when she got engaged. I was asked to be her maid of honor.
She didn't have the date immediately as she wasn't sure how it will be with COVID and now she has the date and she told me she thinks it would be better if my husband didn't come.
I asked her why and she didn't want to tell me at first but then she said it is because he is shorter than me and it would look weird in pictures. He has around 165 cm (5 feet 4.961 inches) while I have 166cm (5 feet 5.354 inches). I think the difference is not that big and I offered I woudn't wear heels but she said I must wear them cause I am the maid of honor and bridesmaid will wear heels as well.