Call me crazy, but if you're not invited to something, you don't have to buy a gift, right?! Isn't that how gifts work??? Have I been doing gifts wrong this whole time?
To make things worse, the sister-in-law and her husband both confronted the woman and shamed her for not buying a gift. The woman whose baby shower it is even cried. Yikes! The woman writes:
Brother's wife (SIL) is pregnant with their first child and had a baby shower over the weekend. I was not invited to the shower but my brother sent me a gift registry. I didn't buy anything because I'm not invited so why should I buy a gift? My sil asked me what I got for her on Mon after the shower and I said I'm not getting anything. She teared up and asked me why. I simply said that I was not invited so I didn't think I need to buy a gift. I did buy a congrats on your baby card for them.