Most men don't understand the fear many women experience every day and the precautionary measures we take to protect ourselves and our bodies. This ignorance was perfectly highlighted in a recent post on Reddit's "Am I The A**hole?" forum by a guy who turned out to absolutely be the a**hole.
As many commenters have energetically pointed out, women have many, many reasons to not accept a drink from a man they don't know. And for him to take this personally instead of understand her reason for being cautious is an a**hole move, to the max.
This was tonight/this morning (it's after 5am). Last night was a big work party at a bar. We came back to my place because I have a fully furnished basement, with stocked bar, where I host parties. This was coworkers I know well and some I don't. I always play bartender when I host because it's my bar in my house and it's just what I do.