Reddit user u/Many_Ad8224 has been ghosted by her biological father for 16 years. He refused to help raise her or pay any child support, yet now demands he be apart of his daughter's wedding. She refused to let him play any role in her wedding, but some people say that no matter what he did, he's still her father.
My (22f) father (64m) decided he wanted to play dad again when he found out I was getting married. He hasn't spoken to me in 16 years when he divorced my mom. He chose not to have a relationship with me because he thought he wouldn't have to pay child support that way.
Well, because of his previous abuse and gas lighting, I have severe depression and social issues as well as trust issues. While I was planning my wedding, he decided he was entitled to be involved. He got my number from my aunt and called me.