When this woman is conflicted about her friend's wife's ashes, shes asks Reddit:
My husband's friend (31) lost his wife 4 monrhs ago. He had cremeted and used to keep her ashes in their home. He unfortunately had to lose their home to medical debts and asked me and my husband to let him move in with us and stay for few weeks til he figures it out.
He told us this during dinner. My husband said of course we'd welcome him to move in and stay in our house. I, for some reason kept thinking about his wife's ashes.
Now I'm not of fan cremation but obviously I can't control how others choose to honor their deceased loved ones. But still, seeing ashes or bring around them gives off weird vibes that I cannot control. I decided tj speaj up and asked his friend if he was going to bring his wife's ashes as well.