Reddit user u/southerngallyl is still deeply hurt that her ex-husband cheated on her and ended their 20-year marriage to wed his mistress. She's allowing her daughter to attend the wedding, but her ex wants her to personally drop the kid off at the church. She refused to put herself in that painful situation, but some people are calling her decision "heartless."
My (42F) ex-husband (45M) and I were together for 20 years. We had a beautiful daughter together, Joceline (14F). We got a divorce 5 years ago due to infidelity on his part. I was devastated. He was the love of my life and he betrayed all of the trust and loyalty we had built up.
They got engaged one year later and are set to be married in two weeks. Honestly, I still am heartbroken over my divorce. It’s hurtful to me that we were together for 20 years, and he could just go fall in love with someone else as if I was nothing.