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<p>You don&#39;t have to love everyone your sibling dates, but it&#39;s rough if you despise them. On a <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/y94t7g/aita_for_exposing_my_sister/">popular Reddit thread</a> on the Am I the A**hole Subreddit, a woman sabotages her sister&#39;s relationship with her awful boyfriend.</p><h2>AITA for &ldquo;exposing&rdquo; my sister?</h2><p>James sounds like an annoying person.</p><blockquote> <p>I (F20) have an older sister &ldquo;Lauren&rdquo; (F21). Lauren started dating &ldquo;James&rdquo; (M23) about three weeks ago. They&rsquo;ve known each other for about a year, and I&rsquo;ll be honest, I never really liked James from the start. He&rsquo;s blatantly misogynistic and homophobic ( I&rsquo;m part of the LGBTQ+ community, so this bothered me). Despite this, I keep it civil with him.</p> </blockquote><h2>James proves OP right.</h2><blockquote> <p>James and Lauren came to my apartment for dinner last night. I&rsquo;m not sure how we got onto the topic, but we talked about body counts (how many people you&rsquo;ve slept with). James commented, &quot;If a girl has a higher body count than five, that&rsquo;s disgusting, and I would never talk to her.&rdquo;</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Experience must mean you&#39;re overqualified for James.</h2><blockquote> <p>My sister and I talk to each other about everything, so I know her body count is higher than five, so I looked at her and commented, &ldquo;hmm, that&rsquo;s interesting,&rdquo; in response to what James had said. He quickly looks over at my sister and says, &ldquo;why is that interesting? You told me I was your fourth?</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>If I find out you lied, that&rsquo;s a dealbreaker, and you know that&rdquo;. My sister didn&rsquo;t say anything, and the conversation was dropped.</p> </blockquote><h2>OP&#39;s sister is embarrassed by her resume.</h2><blockquote> <p>A while later, James leaves, and it&rsquo;s just my sister and me. She immediately flips out on me, saying I exposed her and that I was trying to sabotage her relationship. I told her I had no idea she lied to James and that maybe she should be honest with him instead of getting mad at me. She then left, and I hadn&rsquo;t spoken to her since. So AITA?</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/y94t7g/comment/it3m33j/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">carbinePRO</a> says:</h2><blockquote> <p>NTA (Not the A**hole). How were you supposed to know that your sister wasn&#39;t being honest with her boyfriend? I hate the mentality that these narcissistic people have where if someone else accidentally exposes their lies that it&#39;s somehow not their own fault for lying, but rather on the person who exposed them because of reasons.</p> </blockquote><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/y94t7g/comment/it3jlyq/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">umpah_lumpah_sue1234</a> says:</h2><blockquote> <p>NTA. Dating for 3 weeks is nothing and James has already made his views on women and lgbt+ community clear. Of course, he can for himself say he wants a woman with a low body count but it is surely the best when he breaks up with your sister. In a few years, depending on how close you are, she&#39;ll be glad she didn&#39;t enter a serious relationship with James.</p> </blockquote><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/y94t7g/comment/it3mx7g/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">will-never-be-on</a> says:</h2><blockquote> <p>ESH (Everyone Sucks Here).</p> <p>You suck for outing your sister&#39;s &quot;body count&quot;.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>James sucks for being a misogynistic D-Bag for thinking something like that should even matter about a person.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>Your sister sucks for lying and continuing to be with said D-bag. And everyone involved equally sucks for even remotely caring about the number of partners a person has had. If you truly didn&#39;t care, you should have made a comment along the lines of &quot;why should anyone care?&quot; You all need to grow up.</p> </blockquote><h2>Don&#39;t ever let a James shame you for living your life!</h2><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

"Was it wrong to expose my sister's 'body count' to her misogynist boyfriend?"

You don&#39;t have to love everyone your sibling dates, but it&#39;s rough if you despise them. On a popular Reddit thread on the Am I the A**hole Subreddit, a woman sabotages her sister&#39;s relationship with her awful boyfriend.AITA for &ldquo;exposing&rdquo; my sister?James sounds like an annoying person. I (F20) have an older sister &ldquo;Lauren&rdquo; (F21). Lauren started dating &ldquo;James&rdquo; (M23) about three weeks ago. They&rsquo;ve known each other for about a year, and I&rsquo;ll be honest, I never really liked James from the start. He&rsquo;s blatantly misogynistic and homophobic ( I&rsquo;m part of the LGBTQ+ community, so this bothered me). Despite this, I keep it civil with him. James proves OP right. James and Lauren came to my apartment for dinner last night. I&rsquo;m not sure how we got onto the topic, but we talked about body counts (how many people you&rsquo;ve slept with). James commented, &quot;If a girl has a higher body count than five, that&rsquo;s disgusting, and I would never talk to her.&rdquo; Experience must mean you&#39;re overqualified for James. My sister and I talk to each other about everything, so I know her body count is higher than five, so I looked at her and commented, &ldquo;hmm, that&rsquo;s interesting,&rdquo; in response to what James had said. He quickly looks over at my sister and says, &ldquo;why is that interesting? You told me I was your fourth?  If I find out you lied, that&rsquo;s a dealbreaker, and you know that&rdquo;. My sister didn&rsquo;t say anything, and the conversation was dropped. OP&#39;s sister is embarrassed by her resume. A while later, James leaves, and it&rsquo;s just my sister and me. She immediately flips out on me, saying I exposed her and that I was trying to sabotage her relationship. I told her I had no idea she lied to James and that maybe she should be honest with him instead of getting mad at me. She then left, and I hadn&rsquo;t spoken to her since. So AITA? carbinePRO says: NTA (Not the A**hole). How were you supposed to know that your sister wasn&#39;t being honest with her boyfriend? I hate the mentality that these narcissistic people have where if someone else accidentally exposes their lies that it&#39;s somehow not their own fault for lying, but rather on the person who exposed them because of reasons. umpah_lumpah_sue1234 says: NTA. Dating for 3 weeks is nothing and James has already made his views on women and lgbt+ community clear. Of course, he can for himself say he wants a woman with a low body count but it is surely the best when he breaks up with your sister. In a few years, depending on how close you are, she&#39;ll be glad she didn&#39;t enter a serious relationship with James. will-never-be-on says: ESH (Everyone Sucks Here). You suck for outing your sister&#39;s &quot;body count&quot;.  James sucks for being a misogynistic D-Bag for thinking something like that should even matter about a person.  Your sister sucks for lying and continuing to be with said D-bag. And everyone involved equally sucks for even remotely caring about the number of partners a person has had. If you truly didn&#39;t care, you should have made a comment along the lines of &quot;why should anyone care?&quot; You all need to grow up. Don&#39;t ever let a James shame you for living your life!

You don&#39;t have to love everyone your sibling dates, but it&#39;s rough if you despise them. On a popular Reddit thread on the Am I the A**hole Subreddit, a woman sabotages her sister&#39;s relationship with her awful boyfriend.  AITA...

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