But what happens when someone decides that your time would be better spent elsewhere? "Home with the kids" for example? Let's find out...
Sad_SIL_6540 writes:
I put SIL in title just so it's easier. I (25f) and my fiance Zach (24m) are getting married in a couple months. Zach has a brother, Josh (27m) who recently had twins with his wife Amber (24f).
I invited Amber to my bachelorette party. On the night of the party my husband organized a game night for a few of his brothers and friends, since they're doing the actual bachelor party a few weeks after mine since one of his brothers will be in town.
This wasn't a problem until I realized that there would be no one to watch Amber and Josh's twins. They're pretty low income so there's no way they'd be able to afford a babysitter. We also know that they don't have friends who could watch them, and Amber's family lives out of state.