u/Any-Arugula8950 is fed up with her sister's boyfriend not doing his chores. She laid down the law of her home but went to Reddit for some backup to ask:
I'm 30f. My sister Hannah (19) has been dating Austin (20) for 3 years. They have a 1yo daughter together. Family emergencies came up 3 months ago and they needed somewhere to stay. I was the only safe option, to put it lightly, so I told them they could stay here temporarily. I laid out ground rules, knowing how Austin is (incredibly lazy).
Austin was to keep working full time and never miss a day unless sick. When he was home he was to do his fair share of house work. I told them they didn't have to pay rent so they will be helping in other ways. My sister works for me in my business and she can bring my niece with her. I help watch her throughout the day.