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Girl loses it after catching her mom kissing boyfriend's dad.

Girl loses it after catching her mom kissing boyfriend's dad.


AITA for embarrassing my mom because she started dating my bf' dad?

So my boyfriend (m20) and I (f19) have been dating for 4 years now. He was in 10th grade and I was in 9th when we got together. My parents and his always knew about our relationship. We actually lived near each other when we were younger and went to the same kindergarten.

Now, his father was a single father for a long time and my parents got divorced 3 years ago.

Three weeks ago I got home (since my university is in the same city I still live at home), and I saw my mom and his dad kissing. It's an understatement to say that i was shocked. Like wtf are you doing?

I immediately called my boyfriend and he came over. We got into this huge fight with them, they started talking about marriage....the same day I requested to get a room in a dorm, and since then I haven't talked to her up until family dinner.

While everyone was eating my aunt asked why my mom and I aren't talking, so i told them everything. I said, 'well maybe if she wasn't f**king my boyfriends father, who is apparently going to be my brother's father soon, I would talk to her.' Maybe I was harsh on her but I was really hurt.

My mom got all red and embarrassed and started shouting about how our love is just young love, and why she should ruin her love life because we kids think it's going to last...I started crying and shouting at my mom and left.

My grandmother called saying how cruel I am. literally somehow everyone is siding with my mom except my cousin. AITA? Was I too cruel?

From the comments:

PaleontologistOk7609 says:

YTA Big Time!!!

First you see your mother and his father doing some quite natural and instead of feeling their joy you freak out. Then you call your boyfriend and trigger him. Why? Because he’s your boyfriend and whatever confuses you should incense him and cause him to fight your battles.

riassma OP responds:

Because it's HIS FATHER! why tf i wouldn't tell him? My boyfriend is not happy with this situation either, i ain't the only one who finds it weird.

Maximum-Company2719 says:

YTA. Your mom deserves to be happy, too. This is not about you.

riassma OP responds:

she can be happy with literally anyone else. also what about just her blatantly saying her relationship is more important because they are older. she is dating him because she believes we won't last, she wouldn't date him is she knew our relationship is long term. she understands that's weird and still does it

kathyackerman9 says:

She was wrong for saying that, but to be fair, you did provoke her in a public setting.

riassma OP responds:

ok, i will say that i am definitely wrong for that, but the way she pulled that out immediately after i told what i think, just means she always thought that my an his relationship is not serious

nonames90987 says:

YTA. You’re an adult, they are adults and this is none of your business. Suck it up, buttercup. Mom has a right to her own life. You don’t get a say, just like she shouldn’t have a say in your life.

riassma OP responds:

will never take anyone seriously who calls me a buttercup xdd

scarboroughangel says:

Grow up. You all aren’t related nor are you being raised as siblings. They aren’t even engaged, and the odds are that you and your BF won’t make it through college as so many first loves don’t.

riassma OP responds:

wow thanks xd

chronberries says:

Your mom is allowed to date your boyfriend’s dad. It’s a bit unusual, but not wrong. I’m curious why it bothers you so much. I’m going with YTA. Your mom said something mean too, but only after you forced her to defend herself in front of family.

riassma OP responds:

not wrong? she is literally making my boyfriend my step brother

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