Jearshsbd OP asks:
I 44F have 2 to children with my husband (2) boy and (3) girl and a bonus daughter (18F) Emily.
My stepdaughter has been living with us for 6 months this past year. She moved in because she told us her mother kicked her out since they didn’t have a good relationship, and her mother said she was too problematic.
Since her moving in, I’ve been very welcoming and I’ve spent more than enough money to help Emily get on her feet. This includes work shoes, comforter sets for her bed, hair products, clothing and underwear.
We told her that she could live here as long as she needed, but since her moving here she’s become a burden to both my children and I. My children and I are used to a regimen of waking up, spending time with my husband, him dropping them off at daycare, and then he goes off to work.