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<h2>&quot;AITA for telling my sister our stepsister thinks she&rsquo;s not good enough for her fianc&eacute;?&quot;</h2><blockquote> <p>I have two stepsisters and a bio sister. My bio sister, Elia, is getting married soon. Our oldest stepsister, Hannah, hadn&rsquo;t met Elia&rsquo;s fianc&eacute; until this recent incident as she lives in Dubai and we live in London.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Elia&rsquo;s future in-laws hosted an engagement party for them which Hannah came here for. Elia introduced her fianc&eacute; to Hannah, but then had to leave as her fianc&eacute; wanted to introduce her to the other guests. After she left, Hannah kept asking us if that was really Elia&rsquo;s fianc&eacute;. My other stepsister kept saying &ldquo;I know&rdquo;.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Hannah kept cracking jokes about how Elia managed to trick him into dating her and how they didn&rsquo;t match as a couple. At one point she said she would&rsquo;ve thought he would want somebody more at his and his family&rsquo;s level.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>At first, I wasn&rsquo;t going to say anything to Elia since I know it would just upset her and Hannah claimed to be joking but we&rsquo;re all going to be bridesmaids and I know it&rsquo;s going to come with some nice gifts and at least one free trip which I don&rsquo;t think Hannah deserves after what she said. I told Elia and she was really upset that she started crying.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Her fianc&eacute; saw and now he doesn&rsquo;t want either of my stepsisters at the wedding and has uninvited them from all pre-wedding activities.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>This has caused a lot of drama in my family and my stepsisters and stepdad are really angry at me. My mum told me that sometimes it&rsquo;s best not to say anything, especially since I&rsquo;ve made Elia feel so insecure that she&rsquo;s trying to convince her fianc&eacute; that they should just have a small courthouse wedding. AITA?</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Comments:</p><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/talkingtothemoon___/">talkingtothemoon___</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA. The f**k is with all these YTA&rsquo;s? If I was put in the same situation, absolutely I would tell my bio sis the f**k my step sisters were saying. How cruel and mean of them. We all should be applauding your sis&rsquo;s fianc&eacute; not taking their wicked stepsister sh*t and standing up for her. They&rsquo;re just pissed they aren&rsquo;t going to get free expensive sh*t.</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/the_39th_doctor/">the_39th_doctor</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>I would be livid if my sister <em>didn&#39;t</em> tell me and let me spend tons to treat people who were being awful to me behind my back.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/newww_heree/">newww_heree</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA. They were not &quot;cracking jokes&quot;, they are just jealous of your sister and protecting their insecurities at her. If I were your sister i would want to know and the fiance did the correct thing by uninviting them (kudos).</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/the3ndish3r3/">the3ndish3r3</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA , but it&#39;s cute that everyone&#39;s mad at you when Hannah literally could have kept her jealous mouth shut and kept all of this from happening.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman asks if she was wrong to tell sister about stepsisters talking behind her back.

&quot;AITA for telling my sister our stepsister thinks she&rsquo;s not good enough for her fianc&eacute;?&quot; I have two stepsisters and a bio sister. My bio sister, Elia, is getting married soon. Our oldest stepsister, Hannah, hadn&rsquo;t met Elia&rsquo;s fianc&eacute; until this recent incident as she lives in Dubai and we live in London.  Elia&rsquo;s future in-laws hosted an engagement party for them which Hannah came here for. Elia introduced her fianc&eacute; to Hannah, but then had to leave as her fianc&eacute; wanted to introduce her to the other guests. After she left, Hannah kept asking us if that was really Elia&rsquo;s fianc&eacute;. My other stepsister kept saying &ldquo;I know&rdquo;.  Hannah kept cracking jokes about how Elia managed to trick him into dating her and how they didn&rsquo;t match as a couple. At one point she said she would&rsquo;ve thought he would want somebody more at his and his family&rsquo;s level.  At first, I wasn&rsquo;t going to say anything to Elia since I know it would just upset her and Hannah claimed to be joking but we&rsquo;re all going to be bridesmaids and I know it&rsquo;s going to come with some nice gifts and at least one free trip which I don&rsquo;t think Hannah deserves after what she said. I told Elia and she was really upset that she started crying.  Her fianc&eacute; saw and now he doesn&rsquo;t want either of my stepsisters at the wedding and has uninvited them from all pre-wedding activities.  This has caused a lot of drama in my family and my stepsisters and stepdad are really angry at me. My mum told me that sometimes it&rsquo;s best not to say anything, especially since I&rsquo;ve made Elia feel so insecure that she&rsquo;s trying to convince her fianc&eacute; that they should just have a small courthouse wedding. AITA? Comments:talkingtothemoon___ says: NTA. The f**k is with all these YTA&rsquo;s? If I was put in the same situation, absolutely I would tell my bio sis the f**k my step sisters were saying. How cruel and mean of them. We all should be applauding your sis&rsquo;s fianc&eacute; not taking their wicked stepsister sh*t and standing up for her. They&rsquo;re just pissed they aren&rsquo;t going to get free expensive sh*t. the_39th_doctor says: I would be livid if my sister didn&#39;t tell me and let me spend tons to treat people who were being awful to me behind my back. newww_heree says: NTA. They were not &quot;cracking jokes&quot;, they are just jealous of your sister and protecting their insecurities at her. If I were your sister i would want to know and the fiance did the correct thing by uninviting them (kudos). the3ndish3r3 says: NTA , but it&#39;s cute that everyone&#39;s mad at you when Hannah literally could have kept her jealous mouth shut and kept all of this from happening. 

&quot;AITA for telling my sister our stepsister thinks she&rsquo;s not good enough for her fianc&eacute;?&quot;   I have two stepsisters and a bio sister. My bio sister, Elia, is getting married soon. Our oldest stepsister, Hannah,...