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<h2>AITA for calling my dad a creepy pervert for making comments about how my running clothes are too revealing?</h2><blockquote> <p>I (19f) picked up running as a new hobby and was going for a run outside today. It&rsquo;s hot where I live (Southern California).</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>My dad saw my running clothes (a running sports bra and Nike shorts) and made rude comments about it like how it&rsquo;s so revealing and that you can see my cleavage and inner thighs in it. He insisted I change out of it.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I called him a creepy pervert for making these comments about my body when I&rsquo;m literally just in standard exercise clothes (and btw men go on runs shirtless all the time!).</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He got really upset and is now not talking to me or making eye contact with me. I asked him what his deal is and he said i was extremely offensive and unfair to him and that he&rsquo;d never thought I&rsquo;d call him something like that.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>So now I feel bad but I don&rsquo;t feel like I was wrong to say what I was feeling at the time? AITA? Do I owe him an apology?</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Edit: clarifying something for objectivity&rsquo;s sake His comment about the cleavage and inner things thing was after he insisted it was too revealing and inappropriate and I asked him what about it was too revealing and inappropriate and that&rsquo;s when he said the cleavage and inner thighs comment.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He does worry a lot about my safety, way more than he does for my two older brothers probably because I&rsquo;m a female and he also reads the news a lot and then gets anxious/paranoid about stuff like kidnappings and murderers.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>He&rsquo;s gotten upset before over my clothes and makeup choices when I was younger, we fought a lot about that. Whereas my brother literally has walked around in boxers in the backyard before and he hadn&rsquo;t cared much</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Comments:</p><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/BruceShark88/">BruceShark88</a> says:</p><blockquote> <p>NTA. Pervy dad, called out on his perviness, instead of owning it and being accountable and trying to make amends&hellip; NOW gives YOU the silent treatment and makes the issue about what you called him and not his behavior.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Your dad sounds like he is suffering from toxic masculinity among other things. Im sorry, you&#39;re for sure NTA. And running is a great exercise, I wish you the best with it!</p> </blockquote><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/acegirl1985/">acegirl1985</a> says:</p><p>Commenting that a woman/girls clothes are revealing and inappropriate is sexualizing. It doesn&rsquo;t matter if the guy pointing out your cleavage is a random stranger, a family friend or your own dad it still feels just as creepy and uncomfortable.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Women have bodies. Very few cover up from head to toe. I don&rsquo;t really care if it hurt his feelings- me made his daughter feel objectified and tried to make her feel ashamed of her body. He deserves to be embarrassed- maybe it&rsquo;ll make him think twice before he makes comments like this again.</p><p><a data-testid="comment_author_link" href="https://www.reddit.com/user/bduegevi/">bduegevi</a> says:</p><p>The father is explaining why he believes that the outfit is not appropriate and the leap to pervert seems a bit over the top.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman asks if she was wrong to call dad 'creepy pervert' for comments about her body.

AITA for calling my dad a creepy pervert for making comments about how my running clothes are too revealing? I (19f) picked up running as a new hobby and was going for a run outside today. It&rsquo;s hot where I live (Southern California).  My dad saw my running clothes (a running sports bra and Nike shorts) and made rude comments about it like how it&rsquo;s so revealing and that you can see my cleavage and inner thighs in it. He insisted I change out of it.  I called him a creepy pervert for making these comments about my body when I&rsquo;m literally just in standard exercise clothes (and btw men go on runs shirtless all the time!).  He got really upset and is now not talking to me or making eye contact with me. I asked him what his deal is and he said i was extremely offensive and unfair to him and that he&rsquo;d never thought I&rsquo;d call him something like that.  So now I feel bad but I don&rsquo;t feel like I was wrong to say what I was feeling at the time? AITA? Do I owe him an apology?  Edit: clarifying something for objectivity&rsquo;s sake His comment about the cleavage and inner things thing was after he insisted it was too revealing and inappropriate and I asked him what about it was too revealing and inappropriate and that&rsquo;s when he said the cleavage and inner thighs comment.  He does worry a lot about my safety, way more than he does for my two older brothers probably because I&rsquo;m a female and he also reads the news a lot and then gets anxious/paranoid about stuff like kidnappings and murderers.  He&rsquo;s gotten upset before over my clothes and makeup choices when I was younger, we fought a lot about that. Whereas my brother literally has walked around in boxers in the backyard before and he hadn&rsquo;t cared much Comments:BruceShark88 says: NTA. Pervy dad, called out on his perviness, instead of owning it and being accountable and trying to make amends&hellip; NOW gives YOU the silent treatment and makes the issue about what you called him and not his behavior.  Your dad sounds like he is suffering from toxic masculinity among other things. Im sorry, you&#39;re for sure NTA. And running is a great exercise, I wish you the best with it! acegirl1985 says:Commenting that a woman/girls clothes are revealing and inappropriate is sexualizing. It doesn&rsquo;t matter if the guy pointing out your cleavage is a random stranger, a family friend or your own dad it still feels just as creepy and uncomfortable.Women have bodies. Very few cover up from head to toe. I don&rsquo;t really care if it hurt his feelings- me made his daughter feel objectified and tried to make her feel ashamed of her body. He deserves to be embarrassed- maybe it&rsquo;ll make him think twice before he makes comments like this again.bduegevi says:The father is explaining why he believes that the outfit is not appropriate and the leap to pervert seems a bit over the top.

AITA for calling my dad a creepy pervert for making comments about how my running clothes are too revealing?   I (19f) picked up running as a new hobby and was going for a run outside today. It&rsquo;s hot where I live (Southern...