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<p>It&#39;s easy to assume that if you get along well with someone, you probably have roughly the same moral code. But sometimes, that&#39;s not the case.</p><p>Sometimes, friends can unpleasantly surprise you by turning out to be morally lacking. A <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/mvc7ra/what_was_a_disturbing_sign_that_your_friend_might/">recent Reddit thread</a> asked, &quot;What was a disturbing sign that your friend might have a broken moral compass?&quot; The answers prove you never really know someone.</p><h2>1. You&#39;re just TRYING to be a bad person at this point.</h2><blockquote> <p>She kissed my then-boyfriend during MY birthday party. That was the end for me. She has no respect and I couldn&rsquo;t trust her any more after that. - Excellent-Elk-1435</p> </blockquote><h2>2. This is sad.</h2><blockquote> <p>She started neglecting her children. I anonymously called CPS twice. They came and never took the kids. 2 years passed, I cut ties and her children are finally in the custody of their grandparents. - PoonGoon8</p> </blockquote><h2>3. Hello, emotional abuse!</h2><blockquote> <p>A few years ago I was out with some friends, there was this guy who started humiliating his girlfriend in front of everyone, did everything he could to destroy her self esteem and brought her to tears. When we were leaving he came to me and said &quot;I felt really good tonight, I really felt like I was in control&quot;. And that&#39;s how I lost my best friend ladies and gentlemen. - loop_22</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>4. That&#39;s absolutely foul.</h2><blockquote> <p>Not a friend but a coworker back in college. He was bragging about how wasted he got one night in his dorm and ended up vomiting on his math book.</p> <p>&quot;But that&#39;s okay! I went to class the next day and sat next to some guy, and just when class was letting out I switched my book with theirs. Isn&#39;t that funny?&quot;</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>Yeaahh... Some random student paid $140 for a textbook and ended up with one with your biohazard all over it? Good one, &quot;bro.&quot; - Von_Moistus</p> </blockquote><h2>5. Hmmm, yeah, that&#39;s annoying.</h2><blockquote> <p>When they like to beef with others just because, quoting their own words, &laquo;I&rsquo;m bored&raquo;. Yet when someone is joking about them they cannot handle it. - GurkePrinsen</p> </blockquote><h2>6. That&#39;s terrible.</h2><blockquote> <p>Bragged to me about having an affair with an engaged guy because he was kind of famous. I still see her post Instagram stories of her acting buddy-buddy with the dude&#39;s now-wife and it gives me the heebie jeebies. - analognewb</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>7. He couldn&#39;t have been too popular...</h2><blockquote> <p>My ex would questioned why I would share something (like dinner I made or my food/drink)that I paid for with my friends. He couldn&rsquo;t understand why I would do that without them giving me something in return. - seatoc</p> </blockquote><h2>8. Each paragraph is worse than the last.</h2><blockquote> <p>When she cheated on her husband with a guy she worked with at a gas station, and then asked me to join them for a threesome, that was a big red flag flapping in the wind.</p> <p>She also littered and thought it was funny. Literally threw trash out the car window driving down the road. Then giggled about it like she had gotten away with something.</p> </blockquote><p> </p><blockquote> <p>She also invited me and my kids out to dinner one night by way of saying, &ldquo;Let&rsquo;s go to (restaurant) and let the kids run around and make a huge mess that we don&rsquo;t have to clean up!&rdquo;</p> <p>Obviously, we are NOT friends anymore. She grew up in a very wealthy family (her mother&rsquo;s last name is literally on a building in my city), attended private school, has a master&rsquo;s degree in early childhood education and had every opportunity handed to her and still insists on acting like trash. - YardSard1021</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>9. Well, this person sounds like an ax murderer.</h2><blockquote> <p>One that really disturbed me was when I told a friend I couldn&#39;t trust them anymore, because they&#39;d betrayed me too many times. Instead of trying to apologize, they chuckled and said that was fine, fully expecting us to continue being friends. They seemed to have no recognition of the fact that betraying people is a bad thing to do. It was a bit creepy. - peneverywhem</p> </blockquote><h2>10. Oh noooo, not stealing!</h2><blockquote> <p>We were shopping at the mall. We went into a little store and she asked if I could hold something in my bag for her. Thinking it was her wallet or something, I said yes. I turned around and realized she was asking me to put stolen merchandise in my bag. I immediately closed my bag and left her there with said item. There was no way I was getting caught with that shit on me and getting the blame. I ended that friendship then and there. - ithasanidea8597</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>11. And he didn&#39;t even realize?!</h2><blockquote> <p>I had a good friend from growing up but we drifted apart. It sucked as I got the impression that he was purposely freezing me out. Anyway, a couple of years ago I threw a party at a bar when I took a new job and invited him. At one point in the evening he told this hilarious story about some shenanigans from back in college. Everyone was laughing....except for me because I know the story and it&#39;s my fucking story! He wasn&#39;t even there. We didn&#39;t go to college together and the story includes details specific to my college town. He&#39;s heard the story before and at some point he just substituted me out of the story. - M-Test24</p> </blockquote><h2>12. What is even the point of this?</h2><blockquote> <p>After not talking for months, my friend (ex), called me at 7AM crying about popping a tire and being stuck with her dogs. It was like -10 degrees so I called in sick to work, drove to where she was, and bought a spare on the way. It turned out my jack wasnt for an SUV so I went and bought one and came back. Changed the tire while freezing my balls off, by the end I couldn&rsquo;t feel my hands or face. I honestly didn&rsquo;t expect a thank you and didn&rsquo;t care she didn&rsquo;t thank me. But when I got home I saw she made a long post on FB about some guy &lsquo;saving her life.&rsquo;</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>It actually made me real happy... until I saw it was about the homeless dude, who unsolicited, simply pointed to where I should put the jack (I did give him a 20 for the advice and because holy shit, it was cold). She made a whole story up about a conversation that didn&rsquo;t happen (she never got out of the car) and actually made fun of me for giving money away when I hopped in the car.</p> <p>I still have absolutely no clue why she did any of this or how she benefited from lying here - MidRangeSauce</p> </blockquote><h2>13. A lot of people wouldn&#39;t even be offended, sadly!</h2><blockquote> <p>I found out that a friend of many many years watched and shared a video of a drunk and passed out co worker being undressed, posed and mocked. I never saw the video but it was a fairly big deal at our small company and the woman that it happened to kind of downplayed the incident as boys being boys but she was clearly very humiliated by the whole experience.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>My friend and I were fishing with a group of friends a couple of years after the video was filmed and I walked up on him showing the video to others in our group with one stating &ldquo;oh I remember when you sent me this, it&rsquo;s so fucked up&rdquo;. They than began imitating the video and making fun of the woman&rsquo;s weight. I packed up and headed out immediately and said friend and I are basically just fb acquaintances now. - upornicorn</p> </blockquote><h2>14. That&#39;ll do it.</h2><blockquote> <p>Constantly bragging about sleeping with women other than his wife - imnotrelevanthere</p> </blockquote><h2>15. Holy crap...</h2><blockquote> <p>Animal Cruelty. I was one driving with a friend who saw a group of ducks crossing the road in front of us. We had enough time to stop but we sped up. I can still remember him laughing at the thumps, and I felt sick. We haven&#39;t hung out in years and I can still remember that sound. - SpecialistSix</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>16. This is rough.</h2><blockquote> <p>When they have no problem talking about other friends behind their back in a negative way. You can be certain they are doing it to you as well. - broadsharp</p> </blockquote><h2>17. Yikes.</h2><blockquote> <p>Whenever he talks about work or some sort of side project, he never fails to bring up his love of money. He&rsquo;ll also interject how good he is at &ldquo;persuading people&rdquo; (aka, manipulating them) whenever the topic of business comes up. He&rsquo;s also flat out said how good he is at being fake towards people and has clearly stated he doesn&rsquo;t care about others as long as he gets what he wants. To make a long story short, I only ever talk to him when I can&rsquo;t physically avoid him. He&rsquo;s honestly a very off-putting person that used to be my best friend. - Ghostinthemachinima</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

17 people on the 'disturbing' moment they realized their friend wasn't a good person.

It&#39;s easy to assume that if you get along well with someone, you probably have roughly the same moral code. But sometimes, that&#39;s not the case.Sometimes, friends can unpleasantly surprise you by turning out to be morally lacking. A recent Reddit thread asked, &quot;What was a disturbing sign that your friend might have a broken moral compass?&quot; The answers prove you never really know someone.1. You&#39;re just TRYING to be a bad person at this point. She kissed my then-boyfriend during MY birthday party. That was the end for me. She has no respect and I couldn&rsquo;t trust her any more after that. - Excellent-Elk-1435 2. This is sad. She started neglecting her children. I anonymously called CPS twice. They came and never took the kids. 2 years passed, I cut ties and her children are finally in the custody of their grandparents. - PoonGoon8 3. Hello, emotional abuse! A few years ago I was out with some friends, there was this guy who started humiliating his girlfriend in front of everyone, did everything he could to destroy her self esteem and brought her to tears. When we were leaving he came to me and said &quot;I felt really good tonight, I really felt like I was in control&quot;. And that&#39;s how I lost my best friend ladies and gentlemen. - loop_22 4. That&#39;s absolutely foul. Not a friend but a coworker back in college. He was bragging about how wasted he got one night in his dorm and ended up vomiting on his math book. &quot;But that&#39;s okay! I went to class the next day and sat next to some guy, and just when class was letting out I switched my book with theirs. Isn&#39;t that funny?&quot;   Yeaahh... Some random student paid $140 for a textbook and ended up with one with your biohazard all over it? Good one, &quot;bro.&quot; - Von_Moistus 5. Hmmm, yeah, that&#39;s annoying. When they like to beef with others just because, quoting their own words, &laquo;I&rsquo;m bored&raquo;. Yet when someone is joking about them they cannot handle it. - GurkePrinsen 6. That&#39;s terrible. Bragged to me about having an affair with an engaged guy because he was kind of famous. I still see her post Instagram stories of her acting buddy-buddy with the dude&#39;s now-wife and it gives me the heebie jeebies. - analognewb 7. He couldn&#39;t have been too popular... My ex would questioned why I would share something (like dinner I made or my food/drink)that I paid for with my friends. He couldn&rsquo;t understand why I would do that without them giving me something in return. - seatoc 8. Each paragraph is worse than the last. When she cheated on her husband with a guy she worked with at a gas station, and then asked me to join them for a threesome, that was a big red flag flapping in the wind. She also littered and thought it was funny. Literally threw trash out the car window driving down the road. Then giggled about it like she had gotten away with something.   She also invited me and my kids out to dinner one night by way of saying, &ldquo;Let&rsquo;s go to (restaurant) and let the kids run around and make a huge mess that we don&rsquo;t have to clean up!&rdquo; Obviously, we are NOT friends anymore. She grew up in a very wealthy family (her mother&rsquo;s last name is literally on a building in my city), attended private school, has a master&rsquo;s degree in early childhood education and had every opportunity handed to her and still insists on acting like trash. - YardSard1021 9. Well, this person sounds like an ax murderer. One that really disturbed me was when I told a friend I couldn&#39;t trust them anymore, because they&#39;d betrayed me too many times. Instead of trying to apologize, they chuckled and said that was fine, fully expecting us to continue being friends. They seemed to have no recognition of the fact that betraying people is a bad thing to do. It was a bit creepy. - peneverywhem 10. Oh noooo, not stealing! We were shopping at the mall. We went into a little store and she asked if I could hold something in my bag for her. Thinking it was her wallet or something, I said yes. I turned around and realized she was asking me to put stolen merchandise in my bag. I immediately closed my bag and left her there with said item. There was no way I was getting caught with that shit on me and getting the blame. I ended that friendship then and there. - ithasanidea8597 11. And he didn&#39;t even realize?! I had a good friend from growing up but we drifted apart. It sucked as I got the impression that he was purposely freezing me out. Anyway, a couple of years ago I threw a party at a bar when I took a new job and invited him. At one point in the evening he told this hilarious story about some shenanigans from back in college. Everyone was laughing....except for me because I know the story and it&#39;s my fucking story! He wasn&#39;t even there. We didn&#39;t go to college together and the story includes details specific to my college town. He&#39;s heard the story before and at some point he just substituted me out of the story. - M-Test24 12. What is even the point of this? After not talking for months, my friend (ex), called me at 7AM crying about popping a tire and being stuck with her dogs. It was like -10 degrees so I called in sick to work, drove to where she was, and bought a spare on the way. It turned out my jack wasnt for an SUV so I went and bought one and came back. Changed the tire while freezing my balls off, by the end I couldn&rsquo;t feel my hands or face. I honestly didn&rsquo;t expect a thank you and didn&rsquo;t care she didn&rsquo;t thank me. But when I got home I saw she made a long post on FB about some guy &lsquo;saving her life.&rsquo;   It actually made me real happy... until I saw it was about the homeless dude, who unsolicited, simply pointed to where I should put the jack (I did give him a 20 for the advice and because holy shit, it was cold). She made a whole story up about a conversation that didn&rsquo;t happen (she never got out of the car) and actually made fun of me for giving money away when I hopped in the car. I still have absolutely no clue why she did any of this or how she benefited from lying here - MidRangeSauce 13. A lot of people wouldn&#39;t even be offended, sadly! I found out that a friend of many many years watched and shared a video of a drunk and passed out co worker being undressed, posed and mocked. I never saw the video but it was a fairly big deal at our small company and the woman that it happened to kind of downplayed the incident as boys being boys but she was clearly very humiliated by the whole experience.   My friend and I were fishing with a group of friends a couple of years after the video was filmed and I walked up on him showing the video to others in our group with one stating &ldquo;oh I remember when you sent me this, it&rsquo;s so fucked up&rdquo;. They than began imitating the video and making fun of the woman&rsquo;s weight. I packed up and headed out immediately and said friend and I are basically just fb acquaintances now. - upornicorn 14. That&#39;ll do it. Constantly bragging about sleeping with women other than his wife - imnotrelevanthere 15. Holy crap... Animal Cruelty. I was one driving with a friend who saw a group of ducks crossing the road in front of us. We had enough time to stop but we sped up. I can still remember him laughing at the thumps, and I felt sick. We haven&#39;t hung out in years and I can still remember that sound. - SpecialistSix 16. This is rough. When they have no problem talking about other friends behind their back in a negative way. You can be certain they are doing it to you as well. - broadsharp 17. Yikes. Whenever he talks about work or some sort of side project, he never fails to bring up his love of money. He&rsquo;ll also interject how good he is at &ldquo;persuading people&rdquo; (aka, manipulating them) whenever the topic of business comes up. He&rsquo;s also flat out said how good he is at being fake towards people and has clearly stated he doesn&rsquo;t care about others as long as he gets what he wants. To make a long story short, I only ever talk to him when I can&rsquo;t physically avoid him. He&rsquo;s honestly a very off-putting person that used to be my best friend. - Ghostinthemachinima 

It&#39;s easy to assume that if you get along well with someone, you probably have roughly the same moral code. But sometimes, that&#39;s not the case.  Sometimes, friends can unpleasantly surprise you by turning out to be morally lacking....