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<p>It&#39;s easy to <a href="https://www.someecards.com/news/news/17-people-share-where-their-high-school-crushes-are-today/" target="_blank">idealize a crush</a> when you don&#39;t know them that well. When you&#39;re admiring someone you haven&#39;t actually dated yet, why not assume <a href="https://www.someecards.com/news/dating/guys-confess-their-20-biggest-turn-ons-when-it-comes-to-women/" target="_blank">they&#39;re the best person ever?</a></p><p>Well, because they&#39;re probably not. Sometimes, even the longest-held crushes can be gone with the wind because of just one stupid, weird or flat-out racist encounter.</p><p>Below, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/" target="_blank">17 people share instances</a> when they lost a crush quicker than you can say &quot;bad breath.&quot;</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><div><div class="video-correcting-container" style="left: 0px;width: 100%;height: 0px;position: relative;padding-bottom: 56.2493%;"><iframe src="https://giphy.com/embed/XWe7BnWanPtcc" width="500" height="375" frameborder="0" class="giphy-embed" allowfullscreen style="top: 0px;left: 0px;width: 100%;height: 100%;position: absolute;"></iframe></div></div></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Someone call the police:</p><blockquote> <p>For context: Him- 6&rsquo;4&rdquo;, built dude Me: 5&rsquo;0 non-built lady</p> <p>We were hanging out at his house when he &lsquo;jokingly&rsquo; blocked my way when it was time for me to go and wouldn&rsquo;t let me pass. I asked him to let me by, when he wouldn&rsquo;t, I told him I was uncomfortable and he called me a crazy bitch. That was the end of that for me.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esiea9h/" target="_blank">tiny_butt_toucher</a></p> </blockquote><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img src="https://media0.giphy.com/media/1iTINAesug3jH5Li/giphy.gif?cid=790b76115d1b1d9449376a527350550c&amp;amp%3Brid=giphy.gif" alt="Remote file" width="480" height="270"></div></figure></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>This story actually re-virginized me:</p><blockquote> <p>Claimed women were only a sex relief for men and couldn&#39;t be as smart as them. Then proceeded to ask me to have sex with him.</p> <p>I asked him if he has a lot of sex.</p> <p>&quot;Yes, of course.&quot;</p> <p>&quot;Then you can go ask another girl, because I am not going to have sex with you.&quot;</p> <p>We were out. He bugged me two hours and half (I am not kidding you, it was actually that much time) trying to convince me that having sex with him was going to be the best experience in my life. I let him talk two hours, even pretended to almost be interested, then at the end of his rant I repeated &quot;I would rather die a virgin.&quot;</p> <p>He was pretty offended.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esimgsc/" target="_blank">thesmilingpierrot</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Someone took the wrong message from &quot;American Psycho&quot;:</p><blockquote> <p>Guy was academic, hygienic, and sweet. Treated waitstaff appropriately. Spoke formally but still funny. Shared things in common w me. Perfect gentleman. Date ended 10/10</p> <p>While driving me home, at a stop light, pointed to a homeless man crossing the street, said &ldquo;I would stop my car for anybody crossing the street, just not homeless men. Where do they have to be? Theyre in no hurry.&rdquo;</p> <p>Me thinking: ok...unsolicited and kinda odd</p> <p>He added another comment: Itd be funny if I run him over.</p> <p>Me: ghosted him like right after he dropped me off</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esii3ka/" target="_blank">chau-a-not-chau-bcdf</a></p> </blockquote><p>The rare case when a crush is instantly killed by reciprocation:</p><blockquote> <p>I had a harmless crush on a married friend that I did not signal or act on, ever. I&#39;ve been the spurned wife before, I kept my distance and did everything short or unfriending him on Facebook.</p> <p>He slid on in to my DMs right after my separation became public knowledge.</p> <p>He was still married to his wife.</p> <p>I didnt respond.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esip5zr/" target="_blank">ryersonreddittoss</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img src="https://media3.giphy.com/media/jS0gJ9uInoAy4/giphy.gif?cid=790b76115d1b1db6424b4b344d7a4d0c&amp;amp%3Brid=giphy.gif" alt="Remote file" width="268" height="160"></div></figure></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Who does this???:</p><blockquote> <p>He was making fun of a disabled woman. Instantly not interested.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esiyzvs/" target="_blank">Chal00pacabra</a></p> </blockquote><p>We all loved &quot;A Star Is Born&quot; but there&#39;s no need to cosplay it.</p><blockquote> <p>A guy who was a straight up doppelganger for Bradley Cooper had a massive crush on me. He was funny, smart, educated and accomplished. I could never get over how I had, on two separate occasions, seen him piss himself drunk.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esj3r0x/" target="_blank">sagegreenpaint78</a></p> </blockquote><p>There&#39;s a fine line between bad boy and giant baby.</p><blockquote> <p>I had a crush on a guy in high school who was a little bit of a rebel. Nothing serious but definitely had a bad boy thing going on. One day in class the teacher told him to do something minor and he flipped out, basically had a temper tantrum and refused. Totally killed all interest by being an asshole for no reason.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esin83b/" target="_blank">sugaratc</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img src="https://media1.giphy.com/media/o9SkZcAVI8Ex2/giphy.gif?cid=790b76115d1b1df7636e41386b94b24f&amp;amp%3Brid=giphy.gif" alt="Remote file" width="245" height="137"></div></figure></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>You can only have so many pets:</p><blockquote> <p>A woman I was talkin to was recently divorced and had moved back in with her parents. She already had a child and a couple pets and was talking about getting another pet and her parents told her no, she chose to go ahead and get another pet anyhow and basically her parents began pushing her out the door. And it was a stressful situation for her and I suggested she talk to her folks. However once she told me she was grown and made her own decisions and did not care about their rules I suddenly understood and quickly lost interest</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esipit7/" target="_blank">olliebrown630</a></p> </blockquote><p>Imagine roofie-ing your own family:</p><blockquote> <p>He talked about how he wanted to loosen up some boring family at a wedding reception, so he spiked their drinks with party drugs.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esiinix/" target="_blank">IguanaTapThatAxolotl</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Has he never heard of Ashley Madison:</p><blockquote> <p>He let it slip that he was cheating on his SO in getting together with me. Killed that crushy feeling dead.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esiya4x/" target="_blank">SSSS_car_go</a></p> </blockquote><p>Sounds like a chill person:</p><blockquote> <p>Gave me a 5 minute lecture on conditions where cheating is okay</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esits4j/" target="_blank">SysWow65</a></p> </blockquote><p>So many questions:</p><blockquote> <p>She told me that spanking her teenage daughter didn&#39;t work, &quot;because it wasn&#39;t satisfying enough.&quot;</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esimldx/" target="_blank">OldGuyzRewl</a></p> </blockquote><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><div><div class="video-correcting-container" style="left: 0px;width: 100%;height: 0px;position: relative;padding-bottom: 56.2493%;"><iframe src="https://giphy.com/embed/JSueytO5O29yM" width="200" height="200" frameborder="0" class="giphy-embed" allowfullscreen style="top: 0px;left: 0px;width: 100%;height: 100%;position: absolute;"></iframe></div></div></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Maybe this would make sense if your hair was literally on fire:</p><blockquote> <p>Poured lemonade on my head in the middle of a fireworks show, she thought it was flirty and cute.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esj0jha/" target="_blank">OneFlatHippo</a></p> </blockquote><p>Didn&#39;t people stop doing this in the &quot;Mad Men&quot; era?:</p><blockquote> <p>We were driving down the road and she threw a Starbucks cup right out the window. Gross.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esiy8co/" target="_blank">airbeat</a></p> </blockquote><p>Nothing like some good old-fashioned racism to thaw a crush out real quick:</p><blockquote> <p>I had a huge crush on a girl in high school. I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she was down. I suggested going downtown and she told me that she didn&#39;t like going downtown because all of the black people.</p> <p>I was stunned. I never followed up on hanging out and I was never attracted to her again. I also let the friendship we had die pretty quickly after that.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esjkj1e/" target="_blank">corycutstrees</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>I hope someone checked on his mom:</p><blockquote> <p>I was casually dating a 19 year old guy when I was 18. He seemed totally normal until I met him at his house before a date and his mom asked him to take the garbage out before we left. He threw a fit that would embarrass most 3 year olds including crying, yelling at his mom, and punching the floor. I pretended that my parents were calling and needed me to come home, blocked his number, and never saw him again.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esj38n0/" target="_blank">hawkcarhawk</a></p> </blockquote><p>Uhhhh were all the bathrooms full?:</p><blockquote> <p>I was having a party and the drinks were flowing. Went to check on her cause she had disappeared for a while. As I open the door, I see her sitting on a small waste basket taking a s*** in my bedroom. I couldnt get that picture out of my head.</p> <p>I know I&#39;ve done my fair share of dumb stuff, but still couldn&#39;t forget it.</p> <p>-/u/<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/c7yfub/what_did_a_crush_do_that_made_you_immediately/esiztl0/" target="_blank">Bearded_McBeardy</a></p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img src="https://media3.giphy.com/media/BZGOWw1XCBDKE/giphy.gif?cid=790b76115d1b1cd34750537777bcd1a9&amp;amp%3Brid=giphy.gif" alt="Remote file" width="400" height="225"></div></figure></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

17 turn-offs that instantly killed people's crushes

It&#39;s easy to idealize a crush when you don&#39;t know them that well. When you&#39;re admiring someone you haven&#39;t actually dated yet, why not assume they&#39;re the best person ever?Well, because they&#39;re probably not. Sometimes, even the longest-held crushes can be gone with the wind because of just one stupid, weird or flat-out racist encounter.Below, 17 people share instances when they lost a crush quicker than you can say &quot;bad breath.&quot;Someone call the police: For context: Him- 6&rsquo;4&rdquo;, built dude Me: 5&rsquo;0 non-built lady We were hanging out at his house when he &lsquo;jokingly&rsquo; blocked my way when it was time for me to go and wouldn&rsquo;t let me pass. I asked him to let me by, when he wouldn&rsquo;t, I told him I was uncomfortable and he called me a crazy bitch. That was the end of that for me. -/u/tiny_butt_toucher This story actually re-virginized me: Claimed women were only a sex relief for men and couldn&#39;t be as smart as them. Then proceeded to ask me to have sex with him. I asked him if he has a lot of sex. &quot;Yes, of course.&quot; &quot;Then you can go ask another girl, because I am not going to have sex with you.&quot; We were out. He bugged me two hours and half (I am not kidding you, it was actually that much time) trying to convince me that having sex with him was going to be the best experience in my life. I let him talk two hours, even pretended to almost be interested, then at the end of his rant I repeated &quot;I would rather die a virgin.&quot; He was pretty offended. -/u/thesmilingpierrot Someone took the wrong message from &quot;American Psycho&quot;: Guy was academic, hygienic, and sweet. Treated waitstaff appropriately. Spoke formally but still funny. Shared things in common w me. Perfect gentleman. Date ended 10/10 While driving me home, at a stop light, pointed to a homeless man crossing the street, said &ldquo;I would stop my car for anybody crossing the street, just not homeless men. Where do they have to be? Theyre in no hurry.&rdquo; Me thinking: ok...unsolicited and kinda odd He added another comment: Itd be funny if I run him over. Me: ghosted him like right after he dropped me off -/u/chau-a-not-chau-bcdf The rare case when a crush is instantly killed by reciprocation: I had a harmless crush on a married friend that I did not signal or act on, ever. I&#39;ve been the spurned wife before, I kept my distance and did everything short or unfriending him on Facebook. He slid on in to my DMs right after my separation became public knowledge. He was still married to his wife. I didnt respond. -/u/ryersonreddittoss Who does this???: He was making fun of a disabled woman. Instantly not interested. -/u/Chal00pacabra We all loved &quot;A Star Is Born&quot; but there&#39;s no need to cosplay it. A guy who was a straight up doppelganger for Bradley Cooper had a massive crush on me. He was funny, smart, educated and accomplished. I could never get over how I had, on two separate occasions, seen him piss himself drunk. -/u/sagegreenpaint78 There&#39;s a fine line between bad boy and giant baby. I had a crush on a guy in high school who was a little bit of a rebel. Nothing serious but definitely had a bad boy thing going on. One day in class the teacher told him to do something minor and he flipped out, basically had a temper tantrum and refused. Totally killed all interest by being an asshole for no reason. -/u/sugaratc You can only have so many pets: A woman I was talkin to was recently divorced and had moved back in with her parents. She already had a child and a couple pets and was talking about getting another pet and her parents told her no, she chose to go ahead and get another pet anyhow and basically her parents began pushing her out the door. And it was a stressful situation for her and I suggested she talk to her folks. However once she told me she was grown and made her own decisions and did not care about their rules I suddenly understood and quickly lost interest -/u/olliebrown630 Imagine roofie-ing your own family: He talked about how he wanted to loosen up some boring family at a wedding reception, so he spiked their drinks with party drugs. -/u/IguanaTapThatAxolotl Has he never heard of Ashley Madison: He let it slip that he was cheating on his SO in getting together with me. Killed that crushy feeling dead. -/u/SSSS_car_go Sounds like a chill person: Gave me a 5 minute lecture on conditions where cheating is okay -/u/SysWow65 So many questions: She told me that spanking her teenage daughter didn&#39;t work, &quot;because it wasn&#39;t satisfying enough.&quot; -/u/OldGuyzRewl Maybe this would make sense if your hair was literally on fire: Poured lemonade on my head in the middle of a fireworks show, she thought it was flirty and cute. -/u/OneFlatHippo Didn&#39;t people stop doing this in the &quot;Mad Men&quot; era?: We were driving down the road and she threw a Starbucks cup right out the window. Gross. -/u/airbeat Nothing like some good old-fashioned racism to thaw a crush out real quick: I had a huge crush on a girl in high school. I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime and she was down. I suggested going downtown and she told me that she didn&#39;t like going downtown because all of the black people. I was stunned. I never followed up on hanging out and I was never attracted to her again. I also let the friendship we had die pretty quickly after that. -/u/corycutstrees I hope someone checked on his mom: I was casually dating a 19 year old guy when I was 18. He seemed totally normal until I met him at his house before a date and his mom asked him to take the garbage out before we left. He threw a fit that would embarrass most 3 year olds including crying, yelling at his mom, and punching the floor. I pretended that my parents were calling and needed me to come home, blocked his number, and never saw him again. -/u/hawkcarhawk Uhhhh were all the bathrooms full?: I was having a party and the drinks were flowing. Went to check on her cause she had disappeared for a while. As I open the door, I see her sitting on a small waste basket taking a s*** in my bedroom. I couldnt get that picture out of my head. I know I&#39;ve done my fair share of dumb stuff, but still couldn&#39;t forget it. -/u/Bearded_McBeardy 

It&#39;s easy to idealize a crush when you don&#39;t know them that well. When you&#39;re admiring someone you haven&#39;t actually dated yet, why not assume they&#39;re the best person ever?  Well, because they&#39;re probably not....