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<p>Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt... right?</p><p>Well, no. Words can hurt pretty badly. And some of them say with you for life. A recent <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/ox6ktp/whats_the_most_fucked_up_thing_someone_has_ever/">Reddit thread </a>asked, &quot;What&#39;s the most f***** up thing someone&#39;s ever said to you?&quot; The answers make it clear that some people should lose talking privileges.</p><h2>1. Why adopt a kid if you&#39;re going to be so mean?</h2><blockquote> <p>&quot;you&#39;re adopted, you don&#39;t get to have opinions&quot;<br /> &quot;you&#39;re going to end up like your real dad&quot; my real dad was an alcoholic and an addict. He f***** up his life and never came back. - Panginodon</p> </blockquote><h2>2. Drop that partner like a bad habit.</h2><blockquote> <p>I&#39;ve had leukemia a couple of times and my then wife looked at me during an argument and said these words, &quot;I hope this cancer eats you from the inside out, and that no one is by your side when you die!&quot; I wad so stunned I just turned around and went to the bedroom and went to sleep. The next morning she literally said &quot;I&#39;m sorry I said those things last night, but you know how angry you get me.&quot; I left the next day and never looked back. It was twelve years of hell with her and I stuck through it to be around my kids, but at that moment I knew this had to be it or I&#39;d never get out. - Felicitucky</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>3. He really said &quot;let me traumatize this kid as much as possible.&quot;</h2><blockquote> <p>When I was 7 my mother and step father were having relationship issues. After a fight in which she ended up leaving the house, my step father sat me down. He gave me an extremely longwinded speech about why I was a terrible, bastard child. I don&rsquo;t remember much of it, but he ended it by saying, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s your fault your mom and I are breaking up. You&rsquo;re rotten and I hate you.&rdquo; I don&rsquo;t think I&rsquo;ll ever forget that. - TotallyNotDylan</p> </blockquote><h2>4. Good for this kid for walking out.</h2><blockquote> <p>In high school, one of my classmate&rsquo;s dad died at the start of the year. All the teachers knew as he&rsquo;d talked about it and been absent over it. Fast forward a few months and the kid handed in &ldquo;sloppy&rdquo; homework as the teacher called it. Then, he made a point of, in front of class, saying &ldquo;your dad would be embarrassed&rdquo;</p> <p>Kid just got up, picked up his things and walked out. Pretty sure we all universally hated that teacher after that - AA0005555</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>5. Wow.</h2><blockquote> <p>&quot;I dont love you, I never did, and I regret not aborting you. You and your father have ruined my life and I hate you both.&quot; ~My mother when I was 10.</p> <p>I do not regret ending my relationship with her at all. - maciver6969</p> </blockquote><h2>6. Okay, that&#39;s kind of insane.</h2><blockquote> <p>My maternal grandmother told me I was the reason for my mother&rsquo;s death. (Not her untreated high blood pressure, or the stroke &amp; aneurysm she had while smoking meth.) - JessicaK419</p> </blockquote><h2>7. Jaw-droppingly nasty.</h2><blockquote> <p>&lsquo;I dont believe your grandfather ever was inappropriate with you - if anything, it would have happened to your prettier sister.&rsquo; - Mom the last time I spoke to her 3 years ago - Blood-Filled-Pelvis</p> </blockquote><h2>8. This person has read too many self-help quotes on Instagram.</h2><blockquote> <p>When my mom got diagnosed with stage IV cancer, my boss at the time said she was excited that I was getting to go through this. She meant it in a &ldquo;beat an obstacle that life throws at you&rdquo; kinda way. My mom passed away two years later and there was nothing exciting about watching her deteriorate and having to say goodbye. Who the f*** says that?! - UghAllUsernamesAreTaken</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>9. One of these is way worse than the other... but okay!</h2><blockquote> <p>When I was 8, my step dad told me i was the reason he went drinking every night. And it was my fault he beat me.</p> <p>A few weeks ago a guy at Rite Aid told me I looked like Robert Z&#39;dar. Which I absolutely do not. I have no idea why he said that to me. - Dirty___________Dan</p> </blockquote><h2>10. This guy got the last word.</h2><blockquote> <p>In college I studied journalism but I had to take a required PR class. We had to keep these journals about our thoughts about news events for some reason, and I was trying to be thought-provoking and so I wrote about this theory about why college students tend to be apathetic about the news, it had to do with the insular nature of the college campus. It was probably bulls***, but I was writing about a theory I had.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p> </p><blockquote> <p>The professor ripped it apart and then ended his scribbling with &ldquo;I find it hard to believe you will succeed at anything, much less journalism.&rdquo;</p> <p>I went on to write for ESPN, so he can kick rocks. - Shaggadelic12</p> </blockquote><h2>11. Ouch.</h2><blockquote> <p>&quot;I knew you had an eating disorder, but I didn&#39;t say anything because you needed to lose the weight.&quot; - MamaOnica</p> </blockquote><h2>12. Way to kick her while she&#39;s down.</h2><blockquote> <p>My ex finished our relationship after 15yrs. To me it was out of the blue. 5 days later my best friend told me that &quot;you should be over it by now&quot; as I&#39;m sobbing my heart out to her. To her I should have been able to mourn and grieve my 15 year relationship in just 5 days!! Turns out he was cheating on me with her - namchelukla</p> </blockquote><h2>13. A horrifying thing to say to your child.</h2><blockquote> <p>&ldquo;You should have held her in, you shouldn&rsquo;t have pushed!&rdquo;</p> <p>Said to me by my mom after I lost my daughter because I went into to labor too early. The contractions couldn&rsquo;t be stopped and I was telling her how at first I thought I was constipated so I kept pushing then my water suddenly broke. - AshleyAmethyst</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>14. You&#39;re not supposed to <em>say that out loud</em>, mom.</h2><blockquote> <p>&quot;I love your brother more than you&quot; - My own mom trying to justify why i was treated like s*** and why my older brother got away with things. - datprocess</p> </blockquote><h2>15. Not nice.</h2><blockquote> <p>&quot;you&rsquo;re not worth marrying, no girl&rsquo;s gonna go for you&rdquo;</p> <p>you&rsquo;d expect it to come from a stranger, not your own family. it just allowed me to stay more distant from them over the years - riseoftheph0enix</p> </blockquote><h2>16. Jesus.</h2><blockquote> <p>You finally got a live one!</p> <p>Said to me by my husband&#39;s grandfather upon meeting our newborn. We had 5 miscarriages before having her. - yellowlabbies</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

16 people reveal the most messed up thing someone's ever said to them.

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt... right?Well, no. Words can hurt pretty badly. And some of them say with you for life. A recent Reddit thread asked, &quot;What&#39;s the most f***** up thing someone&#39;s ever said to you?&quot; The answers make it clear that some people should lose talking privileges.1. Why adopt a kid if you&#39;re going to be so mean? &quot;you&#39;re adopted, you don&#39;t get to have opinions&quot; &quot;you&#39;re going to end up like your real dad&quot; my real dad was an alcoholic and an addict. He f***** up his life and never came back. - Panginodon 2. Drop that partner like a bad habit. I&#39;ve had leukemia a couple of times and my then wife looked at me during an argument and said these words, &quot;I hope this cancer eats you from the inside out, and that no one is by your side when you die!&quot; I wad so stunned I just turned around and went to the bedroom and went to sleep. The next morning she literally said &quot;I&#39;m sorry I said those things last night, but you know how angry you get me.&quot; I left the next day and never looked back. It was twelve years of hell with her and I stuck through it to be around my kids, but at that moment I knew this had to be it or I&#39;d never get out. - Felicitucky 3. He really said &quot;let me traumatize this kid as much as possible.&quot; When I was 7 my mother and step father were having relationship issues. After a fight in which she ended up leaving the house, my step father sat me down. He gave me an extremely longwinded speech about why I was a terrible, bastard child. I don&rsquo;t remember much of it, but he ended it by saying, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s your fault your mom and I are breaking up. You&rsquo;re rotten and I hate you.&rdquo; I don&rsquo;t think I&rsquo;ll ever forget that. - TotallyNotDylan 4. Good for this kid for walking out. In high school, one of my classmate&rsquo;s dad died at the start of the year. All the teachers knew as he&rsquo;d talked about it and been absent over it. Fast forward a few months and the kid handed in &ldquo;sloppy&rdquo; homework as the teacher called it. Then, he made a point of, in front of class, saying &ldquo;your dad would be embarrassed&rdquo; Kid just got up, picked up his things and walked out. Pretty sure we all universally hated that teacher after that - AA0005555 5. Wow. &quot;I dont love you, I never did, and I regret not aborting you. You and your father have ruined my life and I hate you both.&quot; ~My mother when I was 10. I do not regret ending my relationship with her at all. - maciver6969 6. Okay, that&#39;s kind of insane. My maternal grandmother told me I was the reason for my mother&rsquo;s death. (Not her untreated high blood pressure, or the stroke &amp; aneurysm she had while smoking meth.) - JessicaK419 7. Jaw-droppingly nasty. &lsquo;I dont believe your grandfather ever was inappropriate with you - if anything, it would have happened to your prettier sister.&rsquo; - Mom the last time I spoke to her 3 years ago - Blood-Filled-Pelvis 8. This person has read too many self-help quotes on Instagram. When my mom got diagnosed with stage IV cancer, my boss at the time said she was excited that I was getting to go through this. She meant it in a &ldquo;beat an obstacle that life throws at you&rdquo; kinda way. My mom passed away two years later and there was nothing exciting about watching her deteriorate and having to say goodbye. Who the f*** says that?! - UghAllUsernamesAreTaken 9. One of these is way worse than the other... but okay! When I was 8, my step dad told me i was the reason he went drinking every night. And it was my fault he beat me. A few weeks ago a guy at Rite Aid told me I looked like Robert Z&#39;dar. Which I absolutely do not. I have no idea why he said that to me. - Dirty___________Dan 10. This guy got the last word. In college I studied journalism but I had to take a required PR class. We had to keep these journals about our thoughts about news events for some reason, and I was trying to be thought-provoking and so I wrote about this theory about why college students tend to be apathetic about the news, it had to do with the insular nature of the college campus. It was probably bulls***, but I was writing about a theory I had.   The professor ripped it apart and then ended his scribbling with &ldquo;I find it hard to believe you will succeed at anything, much less journalism.&rdquo; I went on to write for ESPN, so he can kick rocks. - Shaggadelic12 11. Ouch. &quot;I knew you had an eating disorder, but I didn&#39;t say anything because you needed to lose the weight.&quot; - MamaOnica 12. Way to kick her while she&#39;s down. My ex finished our relationship after 15yrs. To me it was out of the blue. 5 days later my best friend told me that &quot;you should be over it by now&quot; as I&#39;m sobbing my heart out to her. To her I should have been able to mourn and grieve my 15 year relationship in just 5 days!! Turns out he was cheating on me with her - namchelukla 13. A horrifying thing to say to your child. &ldquo;You should have held her in, you shouldn&rsquo;t have pushed!&rdquo; Said to me by my mom after I lost my daughter because I went into to labor too early. The contractions couldn&rsquo;t be stopped and I was telling her how at first I thought I was constipated so I kept pushing then my water suddenly broke. - AshleyAmethyst 14. You&#39;re not supposed to say that out loud, mom. &quot;I love your brother more than you&quot; - My own mom trying to justify why i was treated like s*** and why my older brother got away with things. - datprocess 15. Not nice. &quot;you&rsquo;re not worth marrying, no girl&rsquo;s gonna go for you&rdquo; you&rsquo;d expect it to come from a stranger, not your own family. it just allowed me to stay more distant from them over the years - riseoftheph0enix 16. Jesus. You finally got a live one! Said to me by my husband&#39;s grandfather upon meeting our newborn. We had 5 miscarriages before having her. - yellowlabbies 

Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt... right?  Well, no. Words can hurt pretty badly. And some of them say with you for life. A recent Reddit thread asked, &quot;What&#39;s the most f***** up thing someone&#39;s...