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<p>There are some <a href="https://www.someecards.com/love/weddings/bridesmaid-wedding-cousin-pregnancy-revenge/">batsh*t funny wedding stories</a> on the internet &mdash; and then there are truly terrible ones like this.</p><p>A woman is seeking advice from Reddit after her fianc&eacute; informed her that his dad will need to physically inspect her genitals, in front of other males in the family, before she can marry him. Her fianc&eacute; told her about this less than a week before their nuptials.</p><p>Now she&#39;s not sure if she should leave him or not.</p><p>Her post:</p><blockquote> <p>My fiance proposed to me about 8 months ago. We decided on having a relatively small wedding which is in two days. Everything was going great. He seems absolutely perfect and we are very much in love.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I am a virgin and so is he, he wanted to save it for marriage and I wasn&#39;t fussed so I agreed to saving it. He has told me earlier that in his family the father checks the virginity of the bride the night before the wedding. I laughed this off as it seriously sounds like a massive joke.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>No turns out he was dead serious. He wants me, the night before to open my legs up in a small ceremony type thing so his dad can check me while him, his brothers and uncle can watch so that they know I am still &#39;pure&#39;.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I told him fat chance I am going to do that and he was begging to me to go through with it and how important it is for him. He said he knew it was slightly embarrassing for me but his mom did and it will prove how much I love him and that I have nothing to hide anyway as I am still a virgin. I left and he was crying, it was very dramatic tbh.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I want to call off the whole wedding because of this and never talk to him again. But at the same time its only one thing and other then that we are genuinely perfect for each other and I dont want to spend my life with anyone else and it is very important to him and his family.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>What the frick frack do I do. I am currently at my friends house and I might stay here for the night. tomorrow would be our last day as an unmarried couple and I am straight up panicking.</p> </blockquote><p>What the frick frack indeed.</p><h2>The people of Reddit are urging her to leave the guy.</h2><p>Says <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/cx7vr0/my_22f_fiance_25m_want_his_father_to_check_my/eyjm2na/">prolixity</a>:</p><blockquote> <p>Slightly embarrassing? If he considers being forced to expose yourself to an audience consisting of your future in-laws only slightly embarrassing, I&#39;d hate to see what he considers to be actual embarrassment.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Why is the burden of proving love being placed upon you? If anything, this is his chance to prove how much he loves you by standing up to his family for his future wife by telling them there will be no genital gawking ceremony.</p> </blockquote><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/cx7vr0/my_22f_fiance_25m_want_his_father_to_check_my/eyk9ap1/">FederalBelt</a> has a great idea:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>Ask him if he&#39;ll agree to have his asshole examined by your male relatives. They&#39;ll need to look inside btw.</p> </blockquote><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/cx7vr0/my_22f_fiance_25m_want_his_father_to_check_my/eyjtt1f/">Razor_Grrrl</a> adds that it doesn&#39;t even make sense:</p><blockquote> <p>And the hypocrisy is astounding. He is concerned about her &ldquo;purity&rdquo; but at the same time every male in his family gets to see her vagina? This is old world sexism and female oppression, has zero to do with love, and I really hope this isn&rsquo;t a real scenario.</p> </blockquote><p><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/cx7vr0/my_22f_fiance_25m_want_his_father_to_check_my/eyjf116/">imgladisaidit</a> puts it well:</p><blockquote> <p>What you do is run.</p> <p>Even asking you to do that is so far out of line it&#39;s insane.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I&#39;m all about embracing cultural differences. If you didn&#39;t have a problem with it, that would be one thing. But you do. Once you said no, the only acceptable response from him would have been &quot;it&#39;s your body, your choice&quot;. End of story. And honestly, in a culture clash, personal autonomy wins every time.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Personal. Autonomy. Wins. Every. Time. Put that on a T-shirt and send it to OP!</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Bride seeks advice about fiancé's dad wanting to do chastity check.

There are some batsh*t funny wedding stories on the internet &mdash; and then there are truly terrible ones like this.A woman is seeking advice from Reddit after her fianc&eacute; informed her that his dad will need to physically inspect her genitals, in front of other males in the family, before she can marry him. Her fianc&eacute; told her about this less than a week before their nuptials.Now she&#39;s not sure if she should leave him or not.Her post: My fiance proposed to me about 8 months ago. We decided on having a relatively small wedding which is in two days. Everything was going great. He seems absolutely perfect and we are very much in love.  I am a virgin and so is he, he wanted to save it for marriage and I wasn&#39;t fussed so I agreed to saving it. He has told me earlier that in his family the father checks the virginity of the bride the night before the wedding. I laughed this off as it seriously sounds like a massive joke.  No turns out he was dead serious. He wants me, the night before to open my legs up in a small ceremony type thing so his dad can check me while him, his brothers and uncle can watch so that they know I am still &#39;pure&#39;.  I told him fat chance I am going to do that and he was begging to me to go through with it and how important it is for him. He said he knew it was slightly embarrassing for me but his mom did and it will prove how much I love him and that I have nothing to hide anyway as I am still a virgin. I left and he was crying, it was very dramatic tbh.  I want to call off the whole wedding because of this and never talk to him again. But at the same time its only one thing and other then that we are genuinely perfect for each other and I dont want to spend my life with anyone else and it is very important to him and his family.  What the frick frack do I do. I am currently at my friends house and I might stay here for the night. tomorrow would be our last day as an unmarried couple and I am straight up panicking. What the frick frack indeed.The people of Reddit are urging her to leave the guy.Says prolixity: Slightly embarrassing? If he considers being forced to expose yourself to an audience consisting of your future in-laws only slightly embarrassing, I&#39;d hate to see what he considers to be actual embarrassment.  Why is the burden of proving love being placed upon you? If anything, this is his chance to prove how much he loves you by standing up to his family for his future wife by telling them there will be no genital gawking ceremony. FederalBelt has a great idea: Ask him if he&#39;ll agree to have his asshole examined by your male relatives. They&#39;ll need to look inside btw. Razor_Grrrl adds that it doesn&#39;t even make sense: And the hypocrisy is astounding. He is concerned about her &ldquo;purity&rdquo; but at the same time every male in his family gets to see her vagina? This is old world sexism and female oppression, has zero to do with love, and I really hope this isn&rsquo;t a real scenario. imgladisaidit puts it well: What you do is run. Even asking you to do that is so far out of line it&#39;s insane.  I&#39;m all about embracing cultural differences. If you didn&#39;t have a problem with it, that would be one thing. But you do. Once you said no, the only acceptable response from him would have been &quot;it&#39;s your body, your choice&quot;. End of story. And honestly, in a culture clash, personal autonomy wins every time. Personal. Autonomy. Wins. Every. Time. Put that on a T-shirt and send it to OP!

There are some batsh*t funny wedding stories on the internet &mdash; and then there are truly terrible ones like this.  A woman is seeking advice from Reddit after her fianc&eacute; informed her that his dad will need to physically inspect...