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<p>Bras can be uncomfortable and annoying, which is why many women relish the moment when they can go home and whip theirs off after a long day at work.</p><p>But one woman was recently left perplexed when her boyfriend&#39;s friend chastised her for going bra-less in her own home.</p><p>A Reddit user named <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnqa5h/aita_for_refusing_to_wear_a_bra_while_my/">Emopunkdeath</a> asked this question in the AITA (am I the a-hole) forum and yielded a ton of answers.</p><p>&quot;I never wear a bra at home as I find them immensely uncomfortable and hate them with a burning passion,&quot; she wrote. &quot;I then go out to the living room to join them. As I&rsquo;m sitting down the friend makes a comment, something along the lines of &#39;dude, put on a bra&#39; I figure he&rsquo;s joking since he kinda laughed before he said it so I just brush it off. He doesn&rsquo;t bring it up again for the rest of that visit.&quot;</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Then, a few weeks later, the friend came to visit again &mdash; and he still couldn&#39;t drop it. OP greeted him at the door without a bra on, and he raised a stink again.</p><p>&quot;Immediately after walking in the door the friend says in an exasperated tone &ldquo;&#39; thought I asked you last time to please wear a bra!!&#39; she wrote. &quot;I&rsquo;m taken aback and I don&rsquo;t really know what to say. I kind of stammer our a &#39;what,why?&#39;&quot;</p><p>Then, according to OP, the following exchange happened:</p><blockquote> <p>Him: I feel really uncomfortable seeing your boobs Me: But you can&rsquo;t actually see my boobs Him: Are you kidding me? They&rsquo;re huge! Of course I can see them! Me: Dude, I&rsquo;m wearing a baggy shirt. At most you can see a bit of an outline. I don&rsquo;t understand what about that makes you uncomfortable. Him: you&rsquo;re joking right?? Me: No...? Him: fucking unbelievable</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>In a depressing turn, OP then stayed in her room the entire time the friend was staying. She only left the room to eat, go to the bathroom and go to work, all so that she could avoid upsetting her boyfriend&#39;s friend with the sight of her bra-less form.</p><p>Now, the guest is gone but her boyfriend&#39;s giving her grief about it. &quot;He tells me I should&rsquo;ve just sucked it up and put on a bra and that I was kind of being an asshole about it,&quot; she writes. &quot;I feel like I should be allowed to not wear a bra in my home but also I wonder if I should&rsquo;ve been more accommodating to a guest that&rsquo;s very important to my bf.&quot;</p><p>So is she the a-hole here? Some people actually thought so.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>&quot;If you have a guest you can&rsquo;t do the things you normally do like have sex on the counter or the couch but hey that&rsquo;s just me,&quot; said <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnqa5h/aita_for_refusing_to_wear_a_bra_while_my/ewejog0/">BrightLight86</a> &mdash; failing to realize that having body parts is not the same as having sex in front of a friend.</p><p>And <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnqa5h/aita_for_refusing_to_wear_a_bra_while_my/ewehpjw/">alyss3423</a> had some choice words for OP: &quot;I would feel equally uncomfortable if I first met someone and they are their melons hanging down its rude and trashy. I have big ones but I always wear a bra around house guests.&quot;</p><p>But these posts were in the extreme minority. Almost everyone said OP was not the a-hole, and that her boyfriend and his friend sucked.</p><p>&quot;He comes into your home and tells you how to dress because HE&rsquo;S uncomfortable??&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnqa5h/aita_for_refusing_to_wear_a_bra_while_my/ewe6sf0/">dogsshouldrundaworld</a> wrote. &quot;Was he worried he couldn&rsquo;t control himself and not look?? I don&rsquo;t understand. This pisses me off. I&rsquo;m sorry you have to deal with both of them. Your bf should have had your back and told his friend to mind his own damn business or get out (IMO).&quot;</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Others had ideas for corporal punishment similar to boob containment.</p><p>&quot;If I were OP I would&#39;ve insisted that the friend starts wearing a sports cup whenever he visits,&quot; wrote <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnqa5h/aita_for_refusing_to_wear_a_bra_while_my/ewd8we4/">gottaquitreddit</a>. &quot;If she has to be uncomfortable for no good reason, so should he.&quot;</p><p>User <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnqa5h/aita_for_refusing_to_wear_a_bra_while_my/ewe0dm0/">toolittletoolate</a>toolittletoolate pointed out the hypocrisy in women being expected to wear bras all the time:</p><blockquote> <p><span style="font-family: BlinkMacSystemFont, -apple-system, &quot;Segoe UI&quot;, Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, &quot;Fira Sans&quot;, &quot;Droid Sans&quot;, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.01em;">&quot;Men walk around shirtless all the time, but somehow I&rsquo;m indecent even though I&rsquo;m wearing a shirt? ... </span>Next time he comes over and wants to comment on your chest, kick him the f*** out. Don&rsquo;t quarantine yourself in your room in your own house. If he&rsquo;s uncomfortable he can leave.&quot;</p> </blockquote><p>And <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/cnqa5h/aita_for_refusing_to_wear_a_bra_while_my/ewe9vb5/">donutschmonut</a> had a beautifully trollish idea: &quot;I would have put a bra on....over my t-shirt.&quot;</p><p>Case closed.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman asks if it's okay to walk around house bra-less in front of boyfriend's friend.

Bras can be uncomfortable and annoying, which is why many women relish the moment when they can go home and whip theirs off after a long day at work.But one woman was recently left perplexed when her boyfriend&#39;s friend chastised her for going bra-less in her own home.A Reddit user named Emopunkdeath asked this question in the AITA (am I the a-hole) forum and yielded a ton of answers.&quot;I never wear a bra at home as I find them immensely uncomfortable and hate them with a burning passion,&quot; she wrote. &quot;I then go out to the living room to join them. As I&rsquo;m sitting down the friend makes a comment, something along the lines of &#39;dude, put on a bra&#39; I figure he&rsquo;s joking since he kinda laughed before he said it so I just brush it off. He doesn&rsquo;t bring it up again for the rest of that visit.&quot;Then, a few weeks later, the friend came to visit again &mdash; and he still couldn&#39;t drop it. OP greeted him at the door without a bra on, and he raised a stink again.&quot;Immediately after walking in the door the friend says in an exasperated tone &ldquo;&#39; thought I asked you last time to please wear a bra!!&#39; she wrote. &quot;I&rsquo;m taken aback and I don&rsquo;t really know what to say. I kind of stammer our a &#39;what,why?&#39;&quot;Then, according to OP, the following exchange happened: Him: I feel really uncomfortable seeing your boobs Me: But you can&rsquo;t actually see my boobs Him: Are you kidding me? They&rsquo;re huge! Of course I can see them! Me: Dude, I&rsquo;m wearing a baggy shirt. At most you can see a bit of an outline. I don&rsquo;t understand what about that makes you uncomfortable. Him: you&rsquo;re joking right?? Me: No...? Him: fucking unbelievable In a depressing turn, OP then stayed in her room the entire time the friend was staying. She only left the room to eat, go to the bathroom and go to work, all so that she could avoid upsetting her boyfriend&#39;s friend with the sight of her bra-less form.Now, the guest is gone but her boyfriend&#39;s giving her grief about it. &quot;He tells me I should&rsquo;ve just sucked it up and put on a bra and that I was kind of being an asshole about it,&quot; she writes. &quot;I feel like I should be allowed to not wear a bra in my home but also I wonder if I should&rsquo;ve been more accommodating to a guest that&rsquo;s very important to my bf.&quot;So is she the a-hole here? Some people actually thought so.&quot;If you have a guest you can&rsquo;t do the things you normally do like have sex on the counter or the couch but hey that&rsquo;s just me,&quot; said BrightLight86 &mdash; failing to realize that having body parts is not the same as having sex in front of a friend.And alyss3423 had some choice words for OP: &quot;I would feel equally uncomfortable if I first met someone and they are their melons hanging down its rude and trashy. I have big ones but I always wear a bra around house guests.&quot;But these posts were in the extreme minority. Almost everyone said OP was not the a-hole, and that her boyfriend and his friend sucked.&quot;He comes into your home and tells you how to dress because HE&rsquo;S uncomfortable??&quot; dogsshouldrundaworld wrote. &quot;Was he worried he couldn&rsquo;t control himself and not look?? I don&rsquo;t understand. This pisses me off. I&rsquo;m sorry you have to deal with both of them. Your bf should have had your back and told his friend to mind his own damn business or get out (IMO).&quot;Others had ideas for corporal punishment similar to boob containment.&quot;If I were OP I would&#39;ve insisted that the friend starts wearing a sports cup whenever he visits,&quot; wrote gottaquitreddit. &quot;If she has to be uncomfortable for no good reason, so should he.&quot;User toolittletoolatetoolittletoolate pointed out the hypocrisy in women being expected to wear bras all the time: &quot;Men walk around shirtless all the time, but somehow I&rsquo;m indecent even though I&rsquo;m wearing a shirt? ... Next time he comes over and wants to comment on your chest, kick him the f*** out. Don&rsquo;t quarantine yourself in your room in your own house. If he&rsquo;s uncomfortable he can leave.&quot; And donutschmonut had a beautifully trollish idea: &quot;I would have put a bra on....over my t-shirt.&quot;Case closed.

Bras can be uncomfortable and annoying, which is why many women relish the moment when they can go home and whip theirs off after a long day at work.  But one woman was recently left perplexed when her boyfriend&#39;s friend chastised her...