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<p>It&#39;s only natural to want to shine at your own birthday party &mdash; but does this argument take it <a href="https://www.someecards.com/news/news/18-people-share-about-the-worst-spoiled-brats-theyve-ever-met-be-jealous-and-afraid/">a little far</a>?</p><p>A text message conversation that&#39;s currently making the rounds on Twitter shows what happens when the birthday girl takes it upon herself to dictate what her guests will wear to her party.</p><p>The conversation is between a woman named D&#39;Nasia (@playygrl on Twitter) and her cousin, listed in the phone as Kayla. It starts with Kayla sending the details of her birthday celebration. After D&#39;Nasia responds asking about the dress code, Kayla gets real.</p><p>&quot;Im glad you text back....lol,&quot; is her ominous first message. Then she goes on:</p><blockquote> <p>So I want everybody to be dressy and look nice but what you normally do could you like tone it down. For me. Lol Cause you know i dont all that makeup stuff and you be killing your shit. But I dont want it to look like your birhtday. Im really not being shady bro. Cause you know I love you.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>D&#39;Nasia is not amused &mdash; and hits Kayla back wit hsome expert shade, asking, &quot;do you want me to do your makeup? i can. its your birthday i want you to look like a bad b*tch. period.&quot;</p><p>Kayla deflects, saying, &quot;No I just want you to relax. I have my look already. Its not that difficult to do.&quot;</p><p>D&#39;Nasia says she knows it&#39;s not difficult, and offers to help Kayla with her makeup again &quot;if thats the look you&#39;re going for.&quot;</p><p>This is when Kayla stops playing nice. &quot;Lol D&#39;Nasia I dont need help,&quot; she writes. &quot;I feel like you being shady. I dont need you tryna out do me on my birthday. You&#39;d rather &#39;help me&#39; then do what I ask.&quot;</p><p>Kayla hits back with something we&#39;ve all wanted to tell the bridezillas and birthday brats in our lives:</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>well quite frankly, i dont feel like i should have too. thats how i dress, thats how i do my makeup wherever i go. and im not gonna dim my personality cause you&#39;re boring. thats not right to me. but i respect your wishes and i just wont come.</p> </blockquote><p>&quot;Boring?&quot; Kayla responds. &quot;Lol dont get beside yourself. Im simple and I like that. I dont NEED to do all that to be fine. You do.&quot;</p><p>D&#39;Nasia somehow keeps her cool in the face of this accusation that she &quot;needs&quot; to do her makeup &quot;to be fine.&quot; She responds, &quot;ok so why you asking me NOT t odo it s oyo ucan look better? lmaooo.&quot;</p><p>&quot;You&#39;re blocked honey,&quot; Kayla writes back.</p><p>Another screenshot shows Kayla texting D&#39;Nasia, &quot;Its sickening to me that you gotta make shit about yourself no matter the situation. You&#39;ve been doing this since we were jits. And I asked you for one thing. It may seem unfair but as my cousin you could have done it.&quot;</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>D&#39;Nasia asks Kayla if she asked anyone else to tone down her look. She responds, &quot;NO B*TCH CAUSE YOU&#39;RE THE PROBLEM OBVIOUSLY.&quot;</p><p>Yikes.</p><p>D&#39;Nasia posted all of the screenshots on Twitter with the caption, &quot;lmaoooooo dawg, this my own cousin. my flesh and blood. lmaoooo im finna snitch to my aunt, raggedy b*tch.&quot;</p><oembed>https://twitter.com/playygrl/status/1158039727129411584</oembed><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The conversation quickly amassed 10,500 retweets and counting, with many people weighing in on who&#39;s in the right.</p><p>Some say D&#39;Nasia should just show up fresh-faced in a burlap sack and get over it.</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">It’s her birthday. It’s the one day out the year that is hers. You can dim your light for one day. I know how she feels, she loves you and wants you there, but sometimes you can do too much. It’s one day.</p>&mdash; Succubus 😝 (@Prissiidesii) <a href="https://twitter.com/Prissiidesii/status/1158068754674307072?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 4, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Some fall into the petty but objectively more fun camp.</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">I’d still go and turn up my fit and my makeup x10. Make her even madder.</p>&mdash; 🧚🏾 (@sagvibesss) <a href="https://twitter.com/sagvibesss/status/1158225201391460353?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 5, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">After all that you should&#39;ve text back &quot;Okay you right, I will tone it down&quot; then came in like this <a href="https://t.co/rSi9cwYBuY">pic.twitter.com/rSi9cwYBuY</a></p>&mdash; Do it! Slap me bitch *SPITS* you mf whore (@Rihannasidedude) <a href="https://twitter.com/Rihannasidedude/status/1158089762080796674?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 4, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Others think the whole kerfuffle says more about Kayla&#39;s beauty standards and how she feels she stacks up to them than it says about D&#39;Nasia&#39;s looks.</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">I feel like looking the best in the room isn’t a realistic thing Bc beauty is in the eye of the beholder therefore not everyone will think that person is the best looking..shit the cup could be better looking than me to sally but Betty thinks I’m cuter than Jen.. see what I mean</p>&mdash; ιмαη (@imanismaiell) <a href="https://twitter.com/imanismaiell/status/1158293328259141633?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 5, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>And the question remains: if Kayla&#39;s fine with the way she looks and dresses, why does she need to alter the appearance of those around her?</p><oembed>https://twitter.com/totallyoveryou/status/1158068411336933377</oembed><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>And as any makeup lover will know, <em>some</em> people who claim not to need makeup sure have a lot of opinions about people who do choose to wear it.</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">It’s so crazy to me that the same girls who make a big deal about not wearing makeup (usually because they don’t know how) get mad at other people for wearing it</p>&mdash; Town Crier (@nimibofha) <a href="https://twitter.com/nimibofha/status/1158050603068809218?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 4, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>Marianne Williamson was invoked.</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">“There is nothing enlightening about shrinking, so that other ppl won’t feel insecure around you.” -Marianne Williamson</p>&mdash; light yagami’s pen (@idandyz) <a href="https://twitter.com/idandyz/status/1158090952881442818?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 4, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>At the end of the day, in a perfect world, everyone could look the way they wanted without other people caring &mdash; but clearly we&#39;re not there yet.</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">There’s no woman on earth that needs to tone themselves down just so I feel confident about myself. 😴</p>&mdash; artsy hoochie mama (@fivefootfantasy) <a href="https://twitter.com/fivefootfantasy/status/1158057422835068929?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 4, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Birthday girl asks cousin to 'tone down' makeup for her party because she doesn't wear any herself.

It&#39;s only natural to want to shine at your own birthday party &mdash; but does this argument take it a little far?A text message conversation that&#39;s currently making the rounds on Twitter shows what happens when the birthday girl takes it upon herself to dictate what her guests will wear to her party.The conversation is between a woman named D&#39;Nasia (@playygrl on Twitter) and her cousin, listed in the phone as Kayla. It starts with Kayla sending the details of her birthday celebration. After D&#39;Nasia responds asking about the dress code, Kayla gets real.&quot;Im glad you text back....lol,&quot; is her ominous first message. Then she goes on: So I want everybody to be dressy and look nice but what you normally do could you like tone it down. For me. Lol Cause you know i dont all that makeup stuff and you be killing your shit. But I dont want it to look like your birhtday. Im really not being shady bro. Cause you know I love you. D&#39;Nasia is not amused &mdash; and hits Kayla back wit hsome expert shade, asking, &quot;do you want me to do your makeup? i can. its your birthday i want you to look like a bad b*tch. period.&quot;Kayla deflects, saying, &quot;No I just want you to relax. I have my look already. Its not that difficult to do.&quot;D&#39;Nasia says she knows it&#39;s not difficult, and offers to help Kayla with her makeup again &quot;if thats the look you&#39;re going for.&quot;This is when Kayla stops playing nice. &quot;Lol D&#39;Nasia I dont need help,&quot; she writes. &quot;I feel like you being shady. I dont need you tryna out do me on my birthday. You&#39;d rather &#39;help me&#39; then do what I ask.&quot;Kayla hits back with something we&#39;ve all wanted to tell the bridezillas and birthday brats in our lives: well quite frankly, i dont feel like i should have too. thats how i dress, thats how i do my makeup wherever i go. and im not gonna dim my personality cause you&#39;re boring. thats not right to me. but i respect your wishes and i just wont come. &quot;Boring?&quot; Kayla responds. &quot;Lol dont get beside yourself. Im simple and I like that. I dont NEED to do all that to be fine. You do.&quot;D&#39;Nasia somehow keeps her cool in the face of this accusation that she &quot;needs&quot; to do her makeup &quot;to be fine.&quot; She responds, &quot;ok so why you asking me NOT t odo it s oyo ucan look better? lmaooo.&quot;&quot;You&#39;re blocked honey,&quot; Kayla writes back.Another screenshot shows Kayla texting D&#39;Nasia, &quot;Its sickening to me that you gotta make shit about yourself no matter the situation. You&#39;ve been doing this since we were jits. And I asked you for one thing. It may seem unfair but as my cousin you could have done it.&quot;D&#39;Nasia asks Kayla if she asked anyone else to tone down her look. She responds, &quot;NO B*TCH CAUSE YOU&#39;RE THE PROBLEM OBVIOUSLY.&quot;Yikes.D&#39;Nasia posted all of the screenshots on Twitter with the caption, &quot;lmaoooooo dawg, this my own cousin. my flesh and blood. lmaoooo im finna snitch to my aunt, raggedy b*tch.&quot;https://twitter.com/playygrl/status/1158039727129411584The conversation quickly amassed 10,500 retweets and counting, with many people weighing in on who&#39;s in the right.Some say D&#39;Nasia should just show up fresh-faced in a burlap sack and get over it.It’s her birthday. It’s the one day out the year that is hers. You can dim your light for one day. I know how she feels, she loves you and wants you there, but sometimes you can do too much. It’s one day.&mdash; Succubus 😝 (@Prissiidesii) August 4, 2019 Some fall into the petty but objectively more fun camp.I’d still go and turn up my fit and my makeup x10. Make her even madder.&mdash; 🧚🏾 (@sagvibesss) August 5, 2019 After all that you should&#39;ve text back &quot;Okay you right, I will tone it down&quot; then came in like this pic.twitter.com/rSi9cwYBuY&mdash; Do it! Slap me bitch *SPITS* you mf whore (@Rihannasidedude) August 4, 2019 Others think the whole kerfuffle says more about Kayla&#39;s beauty standards and how she feels she stacks up to them than it says about D&#39;Nasia&#39;s looks.I feel like looking the best in the room isn’t a realistic thing Bc beauty is in the eye of the beholder therefore not everyone will think that person is the best looking..shit the cup could be better looking than me to sally but Betty thinks I’m cuter than Jen.. see what I mean&mdash; ιмαη (@imanismaiell) August 5, 2019 And the question remains: if Kayla&#39;s fine with the way she looks and dresses, why does she need to alter the appearance of those around her?https://twitter.com/totallyoveryou/status/1158068411336933377And as any makeup lover will know, some people who claim not to need makeup sure have a lot of opinions about people who do choose to wear it.It’s so crazy to me that the same girls who make a big deal about not wearing makeup (usually because they don’t know how) get mad at other people for wearing it&mdash; Town Crier (@nimibofha) August 4, 2019 Marianne Williamson was invoked.“There is nothing enlightening about shrinking, so that other ppl won’t feel insecure around you.” -Marianne Williamson&mdash; light yagami’s pen (@idandyz) August 4, 2019 At the end of the day, in a perfect world, everyone could look the way they wanted without other people caring &mdash; but clearly we&#39;re not there yet.There’s no woman on earth that needs to tone themselves down just so I feel confident about myself. 😴&mdash; artsy hoochie mama (@fivefootfantasy) August 4, 2019 

It&#39;s only natural to want to shine at your own birthday party &mdash; but does this argument take it a little far?  A text message conversation that&#39;s currently making the rounds on Twitter shows what happens when the birthday girl...