People have a lot of opinions about women who dare to have their own opinions about their engagement rings.
And today on Reddit, one soon-to-be bride is hand-wringing about whether her hope for a slightly nicer engagement ring makes her a terrible person.
The woman posted on Reddit's "Am I the A-hole?" section, "AITA for wanting a more extravagant engagement ring?"
This woman and her fiancé have already agreed to get married, but he's not giving her the ring until a ceremony later on, as this is the way it's done in his culture. He believes that she has no preferences about the ring, and is probably going to go as cheap as possible:
Now during the ceremony he is to give me a ring. I don’t normally place any value or importance on shiny, expensive luxury items and he knows this. So he just assumed I didn’t care about an engagement ring either. His plan as of now is to go to an accessory shop and get any cheap ring that won’t make my finger go green.