It's always nice to do your partner a solid and help them throw a party for their friends. But what if they're serially abusing the privilege?
One woman is asking if she was in the wrong for leaving her husband high and dry when he invited his bros over for a barbecue. She took to Reddit to ask if she was wrong for skipping out on helping — especially because he's abused the privilege several times before.
So, my husband likes to invite his friends (note: HIS friends. I am not close with them) for barbecue parties. He prides himself on his BBQ skills. The thing is... I always end up doing everything! He buys and preps the meat and then grills and serves it (and collects praise for his BBQ skills). I have to buy drinks, get out enough dishes, clean up the patio/deck (non native speaker, idk which one to use).