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<p>You&#39;ve seen plenty of Entitled Brides and Entitled Grooms...now prepare to meet the Entitled Guy Whose Anniversary It Is.</p><p>An adult man asked <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/os3zka/wibta_for_not_wanting_to_go_to_my_friends_wedding/">&quot;Am I The A**hole?&quot;</a> whether he&#39;d be a jerk to skip his friend&#39;s wedding because it&#39;s his tenth anniversary and he likes to spend the day &quot;going to dinner and stuff.&quot;</p><p>In case the syntax of that sentence wasn&#39;t sufficiently off-putting, the dude also cited his anniversary as &quot;Skyrim&#39;s release date.&quot;</p><p>He wrote:</p><blockquote> <p>I (33M) just got told to save the date for my friends (36M) wedding. The issue is that his date (11/11) is the same as mine. This would be my 10 year anniversary with my wife (yes we were one of those 11/11/11 couples.) I know I don&#39;t own a date I just feel kind of encroached upon.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>I don&#39;t think my friend is doing this maliciously, he&#39;s slightly forgetful about stuff like this and you aren&#39;t really expected to remember someone&#39;s anniversary date, though I do talk about how we got married on Skyrim&#39;s release date a lot. I&#39;m feeling conflicted and need to check myself before I wreck myself.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>I did remind him that the day is my 10 years and he did acknowledge it and said congrats. When i asked why another cool date like 2-22-2022 wasn&#39;t an option he said it was too close to his daughter&#39;s birthday.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>Would I be the the a**hole for not wanting to go or saving the date? I don&#39;t really have anything planned at the moment for my wife and I (we were going to go big on the 11th year) but I still like going out to dinner and stuff.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The Reddit Jury had mixed reactions. Some criticized his possessiveness of the date, while others were sympathetic.</p><blockquote> <p>&quot;YTA (You&#39;re The A**hole). If you had something huge planned for it and he knew that, sure, not going would make sense,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/maggienetism/">maggienetism</a> stated. &quot;But you admit you don&#39;t have any plans and it really isn&#39;t your friend&#39;s problem you feel protective of the day you got married on...a decade ago.&quot;</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>&quot;No one cares about the day you for married except you and your spouse. You can&#39;t expect anyone to remember, care, or avoid that date,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/superfastmomma/">superfastmomma</a> added, unsympathetically.</p> </blockquote><blockquote> <p>&quot;NTA (Not The A**hole). You don&#39;t have to go to the wedding. A save the date isn&#39;t a summons,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Gochukaru/">Gochukaru</a> wrote. &quot;Regardless of what you do or dont have planned now, you are free to keep that date open as it&#39;s your anniversary.&quot;</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>It depends on how close friends these bros are. If &quot;dinner and stuff&quot; is more important than the friend&#39;s wedding, then they either weren&#39;t that close to begin with or won&#39;t be close for long.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Guy asks if he's wrong to skip friend's wedding that's on his anniversary.

You&#39;ve seen plenty of Entitled Brides and Entitled Grooms...now prepare to meet the Entitled Guy Whose Anniversary It Is.An adult man asked &quot;Am I The A**hole?&quot; whether he&#39;d be a jerk to skip his friend&#39;s wedding because it&#39;s his tenth anniversary and he likes to spend the day &quot;going to dinner and stuff.&quot;In case the syntax of that sentence wasn&#39;t sufficiently off-putting, the dude also cited his anniversary as &quot;Skyrim&#39;s release date.&quot;He wrote: I (33M) just got told to save the date for my friends (36M) wedding. The issue is that his date (11/11) is the same as mine. This would be my 10 year anniversary with my wife (yes we were one of those 11/11/11 couples.) I know I don&#39;t own a date I just feel kind of encroached upon.  I don&#39;t think my friend is doing this maliciously, he&#39;s slightly forgetful about stuff like this and you aren&#39;t really expected to remember someone&#39;s anniversary date, though I do talk about how we got married on Skyrim&#39;s release date a lot. I&#39;m feeling conflicted and need to check myself before I wreck myself.  I did remind him that the day is my 10 years and he did acknowledge it and said congrats. When i asked why another cool date like 2-22-2022 wasn&#39;t an option he said it was too close to his daughter&#39;s birthday.  Would I be the the a**hole for not wanting to go or saving the date? I don&#39;t really have anything planned at the moment for my wife and I (we were going to go big on the 11th year) but I still like going out to dinner and stuff. The Reddit Jury had mixed reactions. Some criticized his possessiveness of the date, while others were sympathetic. &quot;YTA (You&#39;re The A**hole). If you had something huge planned for it and he knew that, sure, not going would make sense,&quot; maggienetism stated. &quot;But you admit you don&#39;t have any plans and it really isn&#39;t your friend&#39;s problem you feel protective of the day you got married on...a decade ago.&quot;  &quot;No one cares about the day you for married except you and your spouse. You can&#39;t expect anyone to remember, care, or avoid that date,&quot; superfastmomma added, unsympathetically.  &quot;NTA (Not The A**hole). You don&#39;t have to go to the wedding. A save the date isn&#39;t a summons,&quot; Gochukaru wrote. &quot;Regardless of what you do or dont have planned now, you are free to keep that date open as it&#39;s your anniversary.&quot; It depends on how close friends these bros are. If &quot;dinner and stuff&quot; is more important than the friend&#39;s wedding, then they either weren&#39;t that close to begin with or won&#39;t be close for long.

You&#39;ve seen plenty of Entitled Brides and Entitled Grooms...now prepare to meet the Entitled Guy Whose Anniversary It Is.  An adult man asked &quot;Am I The A**hole?&quot; whether he&#39;d be a jerk to skip his friend&#39;s wedding...