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<p>To some brides, being a bridesmaid is an all-or-nothing position. It&#39;s not enough to simply wear the same color and pose for pictures, there&#39;s a strict schedule of activities.</p><p>A bride asked if she&#39;d be wrong to kick her sister out of the wedding party because she&#39;ll also have a newborn baby to tend to. The Facebook post made its way to the <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/mvqua5/this_bride_is_getting_dragged_to_hell_and_back/">Wedding Shaming</a> subreddit, where she was labeled a Bridezilla.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Reddit" data-attribution-url="" height="566" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/1-lZqT1y.jpg" width="640" /></div><div class="image-attribution">Reddit</div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>Tell me if I&#39;m wrong here.</p> <p>I no longer think my sister should be a bridesmaid.</p> <p>Simply because she will have a newborn and not be able to be present during everything that goes on throughout the day.</p> <p>She will have to leave from getting ready to go pump every 2 hours for 30 minutes. And the day is on a strict schedule as it is.</p> <p>Not to mention that I don&#39;t think it&#39;s possible for her to wake up early to be at the venue to get ready and go all day long until 9pm on little sleep from being up and down with the baby.</p> </blockquote><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Reddit" data-attribution-url="" height="514" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/2-TXWgPh.jpg" width="640" /></div><div class="image-attribution">Reddit</div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> <p>I also really don&#39;t want a newborn at the wedding because babies are super unpredictable. I paid for a videographer for the highlights but also he records the entire ceremony start to finish. What happens if the baby gets fussy during the vow exchange and of course can&#39;t be edited out of it due to it being &quot;in the moment&quot; recording.</p> <p>Also if the baby were there, my sister can&#39;t just leave the ceremony to tend to him which means someone else (more than likely my mother) has to miss the whole reason we&#39;rethere. And then even after the ceremony, everyone will be focused on the baby instead of celebrating my day.</p> <p>Am I being a bridezilla or do I have a right to a) not have her as a bridesmaid and b) not want the baby there at all.</p> </blockquote><p>&quot;Ya know. She had the in the first half. It seemed like she wanted to possibly be considerate of her sister and new niece/nephews needs. Then I got to the part where she&#39;s worried about the baby upstaging her 🤣,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/jjcleav/">jjcleav</a> commented.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>People chimed in with their own stories of juggling both having a baby and being a bridesmaid.</p><p>&quot;I was in the same position but I was the bridemaid in my [brother-in-law&#39;s] wedding. My baby was 4 weeks old and I was exclusively [breastfeeding]. My parent hung out in the brides room during the ceremony and took care of my baby during the ceremony. I&rsquo;d disappeared every few hours for a half hour. No big deal,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TNTmom4/">TNTmom4</a> shared.</p><p>&quot;My sister/MOH left my reception to breastfeed my niece, and the worst thing that happened was she missed a song she wanted to dance to. So we played it again. And everyone danced again,&quot; added <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/SoManyBrennas/">SoManyBrennas</a>.</p><p>The bride was concerned about her mother missing the wedding to take care of the baby, so commenters advised hiring a babysitter outside of the family.</p><p>There are ways to get around having a new mom as a bridesmaid. Being a person who is jealous of infants, though, will take more work to fix.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Bride asks if she’s wrong to kick sister out of bridal party for having a newborn.

To some brides, being a bridesmaid is an all-or-nothing position. It&#39;s not enough to simply wear the same color and pose for pictures, there&#39;s a strict schedule of activities.A bride asked if she&#39;d be wrong to kick her sister out of the wedding party because she&#39;ll also have a newborn baby to tend to. The Facebook post made its way to the Wedding Shaming subreddit, where she was labeled a Bridezilla.Reddit Tell me if I&#39;m wrong here. I no longer think my sister should be a bridesmaid. Simply because she will have a newborn and not be able to be present during everything that goes on throughout the day. She will have to leave from getting ready to go pump every 2 hours for 30 minutes. And the day is on a strict schedule as it is. Not to mention that I don&#39;t think it&#39;s possible for her to wake up early to be at the venue to get ready and go all day long until 9pm on little sleep from being up and down with the baby. Reddit I also really don&#39;t want a newborn at the wedding because babies are super unpredictable. I paid for a videographer for the highlights but also he records the entire ceremony start to finish. What happens if the baby gets fussy during the vow exchange and of course can&#39;t be edited out of it due to it being &quot;in the moment&quot; recording. Also if the baby were there, my sister can&#39;t just leave the ceremony to tend to him which means someone else (more than likely my mother) has to miss the whole reason we&#39;rethere. And then even after the ceremony, everyone will be focused on the baby instead of celebrating my day. Am I being a bridezilla or do I have a right to a) not have her as a bridesmaid and b) not want the baby there at all. &quot;Ya know. She had the in the first half. It seemed like she wanted to possibly be considerate of her sister and new niece/nephews needs. Then I got to the part where she&#39;s worried about the baby upstaging her 🤣,&quot; jjcleav commented.People chimed in with their own stories of juggling both having a baby and being a bridesmaid.&quot;I was in the same position but I was the bridemaid in my [brother-in-law&#39;s] wedding. My baby was 4 weeks old and I was exclusively [breastfeeding]. My parent hung out in the brides room during the ceremony and took care of my baby during the ceremony. I&rsquo;d disappeared every few hours for a half hour. No big deal,&quot; TNTmom4 shared.&quot;My sister/MOH left my reception to breastfeed my niece, and the worst thing that happened was she missed a song she wanted to dance to. So we played it again. And everyone danced again,&quot; added SoManyBrennas.The bride was concerned about her mother missing the wedding to take care of the baby, so commenters advised hiring a babysitter outside of the family.There are ways to get around having a new mom as a bridesmaid. Being a person who is jealous of infants, though, will take more work to fix.

To some brides, being a bridesmaid is an all-or-nothing position. It&#39;s not enough to simply wear the same color and pose for pictures, there&#39;s a strict schedule of activities.  A bride asked if she&#39;d be wrong to kick her sister...