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New insane bride demand just dropped!A bride is insisting on a ~makeup-free wedding~ because she does not wear makeup herself. Her husband-to-be prefers the natural look, and now the couple is imposing it upon everyone who attends.The bride&#39;s sister explained the situation in a post on <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/n2ltvs/aita_for_insisting_i_wear_makeup_at_my_sisters/">&quot;Am I The A**hole?&quot;</a> She would not feel comfortable going to a highly-photographed event like a wedding without at least a little bit of concealer, and is worried that the insistence would make her the jerk.She wrote:<blockquote> My sister is getting married this July. I offered last month to book a hair and make up artist to do her, my and our mothers hair and make up on the day. </blockquote><blockquote> She told me a few weeks ago she doesn&#39;t want to wear make up which didn&#39;t surprise me as she rarely wears it, but today she told me she didn&#39;t want me booking anyone for my or our mother and that she didn&#39;t want us to wear make up at all. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> I messaged her privately to say that I was very happy to do my own make up and could do a natural look to fit the theme and she told me that I wasn&#39;t to wear any make up as that was what &quot;we&quot; wanted. </blockquote>Makeup-free is the &quot;theme&quot; and the couple is sticking to it, comfort of the guests be damned. The bride even threatened to ban her only sibling over this.<blockquote> She insinuated a few weeks ago that her fianc&eacute; told her not to wear make up on the wedding day but that&#39;s a separate conversation. I told her that I wouldn&#39;t be comfortable not wearing make up and was happy to do a very natural look (foundation, concealer and mascara) and she she now insinuated that I wasn&#39;t welcome (I&#39;m her only sibling). </blockquote><blockquote> I have oily severe acne skin, and self confidence issues, I would look beyond terrible in the photos and feel so uncomfortable the entire day, she will plaster these photos all over social media. AITA [Am I The A**hole] for being upset here or should I just go with what she wants? </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>The Original Poster added these details after the comments started rolling in:<blockquote> -I am the only bridesmaid, it is a very small family only wedding due to covid. -I am her only sibling and we are close. -I have severe acne that is caused by a hormone condition, she has perfect skin. </blockquote><blockquote> Not looking for your suggestions to treat acne -I have never met her fianc&eacute;, they have been together for 7 months and I live in a different country </blockquote>The usually skeptical Reddit commentariat emphatically declared the sister to be Not The A**hole.<blockquote> &quot;NTA (Not The A**hole). She can&rsquo;t tell you that you and your mother aren&rsquo;t allowed to wear makeup. You offered to do a natural look, as to not take attention away. The fact of her saying &ldquo;we&rdquo; and her husband saying he didn&rsquo;t want her wearing makeup is a bit concerning,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/LilGothRose/">LilGothRose</a> wrote. </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><blockquote> &quot;NTA, but I&rsquo;d be sneaky about it. Wear a tinted moisturizer, a clear oil absorbing powder, tinted lip balm, get some natural looking fake eyelashes. </blockquote><blockquote> None of those are technically &ldquo;make up&rdquo;, and unless she comes at you with a wet wipe, she&rsquo;ll probably not notice,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/ScorpioGirl70/">ScorpioGirl70</a> pitched. &quot;Or, since it&rsquo;s a July wedding, get a nice tan, then just use the powder to absorb oil.&quot; </blockquote>People suggested that the fianc&eacute;&#39;s insistence on makeup-free is a major red flag indicative of other control issues.<blockquote> &quot;I&rsquo;m here for the separate conversation about the future husband. Sounds like a controlling a**hole that won&rsquo;t get any better with marriage. Forget the makeup, tell her to cancel the whole damn thing,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Wild_Azz/">Wild_Azz</a> said. </blockquote>Here&#39;s hoping the family holds an intervention, with or without makeup.<div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Woman with acne asks if she’s wrong to wear makeup to sister's 'makeup-free' wedding.

New insane bride demand just dropped!A bride is insisting on a ~makeup-free wedding~ because she does not wear makeup herself. Her husband-to-be prefers the natural look, and now the couple is imposing it upon everyone who attends.The bride&#39;s sister explained the situation in a post on &quot;Am I The A**hole?&quot; She would not feel comfortable going to a highly-photographed event like a wedding without at least a little bit of concealer, and is worried that the insistence would make her the jerk.She wrote: My sister is getting married this July. I offered last month to book a hair and make up artist to do her, my and our mothers hair and make up on the day.  She told me a few weeks ago she doesn&#39;t want to wear make up which didn&#39;t surprise me as she rarely wears it, but today she told me she didn&#39;t want me booking anyone for my or our mother and that she didn&#39;t want us to wear make up at all.  I messaged her privately to say that I was very happy to do my own make up and could do a natural look to fit the theme and she told me that I wasn&#39;t to wear any make up as that was what &quot;we&quot; wanted. Makeup-free is the &quot;theme&quot; and the couple is sticking to it, comfort of the guests be damned. The bride even threatened to ban her only sibling over this. She insinuated a few weeks ago that her fianc&eacute; told her not to wear make up on the wedding day but that&#39;s a separate conversation. I told her that I wouldn&#39;t be comfortable not wearing make up and was happy to do a very natural look (foundation, concealer and mascara) and she she now insinuated that I wasn&#39;t welcome (I&#39;m her only sibling).  I have oily severe acne skin, and self confidence issues, I would look beyond terrible in the photos and feel so uncomfortable the entire day, she will plaster these photos all over social media. AITA [Am I The A**hole] for being upset here or should I just go with what she wants? The Original Poster added these details after the comments started rolling in: -I am the only bridesmaid, it is a very small family only wedding due to covid. -I am her only sibling and we are close. -I have severe acne that is caused by a hormone condition, she has perfect skin.  Not looking for your suggestions to treat acne -I have never met her fianc&eacute;, they have been together for 7 months and I live in a different country The usually skeptical Reddit commentariat emphatically declared the sister to be Not The A**hole. &quot;NTA (Not The A**hole). She can&rsquo;t tell you that you and your mother aren&rsquo;t allowed to wear makeup. You offered to do a natural look, as to not take attention away. The fact of her saying &ldquo;we&rdquo; and her husband saying he didn&rsquo;t want her wearing makeup is a bit concerning,&quot; LilGothRose wrote.  &quot;NTA, but I&rsquo;d be sneaky about it. Wear a tinted moisturizer, a clear oil absorbing powder, tinted lip balm, get some natural looking fake eyelashes.  None of those are technically &ldquo;make up&rdquo;, and unless she comes at you with a wet wipe, she&rsquo;ll probably not notice,&quot; ScorpioGirl70 pitched. &quot;Or, since it&rsquo;s a July wedding, get a nice tan, then just use the powder to absorb oil.&quot; People suggested that the fianc&eacute;&#39;s insistence on makeup-free is a major red flag indicative of other control issues. &quot;I&rsquo;m here for the separate conversation about the future husband. Sounds like a controlling a**hole that won&rsquo;t get any better with marriage. Forget the makeup, tell her to cancel the whole damn thing,&quot; Wild_Azz said. Here&#39;s hoping the family holds an intervention, with or without makeup.

New insane bride demand just dropped!  A bride is insisting on a ~makeup-free wedding~ because she does not wear makeup herself. Her husband-to-be prefers the natural look, and now the couple is imposing it upon everyone who attends.  The...