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<p>For many people, having a wedding is the most elaborate and important photoshoot of their lives, and they will get the &quot;picture perfect&quot; portrait, no matter who they alienate in the process.</p><p>A bride asked a wedding planning Facebook group for advice on how to handle an insubordinate bridesmaid with blue hair who wants to keep her hair color as it is for the wedding.</p><p>People use their hairstyle as a way of expressing themselves, and this bride would rather her friend <em>not </em>be themselves on *her* special day.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Reddit" data-attribution-url="" height="751" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/bride-upXOdJ.jpg" width="640" /></div><div class="image-attribution">Reddit</div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The &quot;WHHHHYYYYY?!?!?&quot; really sets the tone.</p><p>The post was shared on the subreddit <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/n0sjvv/most_of_the_comments_are_telling_her_to_request_a/">Wedding Shaming</a>, where the bride was called both a Bridezilla and a terrible friend.</p><p>&quot;Why dont brides like this just hire models for bridesmaids since all they care about is appearance,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/valathel/">valathel</a> wrote.</p><p>&quot;There&#39;s nothing quite like a wedding to make make someone think they are suddenly in control of others&#39; bodies,&quot; <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Gadgetownsme/">Gadgetownsme</a> agreed.</p><p>Reddit user <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/snarkiesnarker/">narkiesnarker</a> explained that making sure the hair doesn&#39;t pull focus is the job of the photographer, not the bride.</p><p>&quot;If you trust your photographer, you trust that you&rsquo;ll be the focal point. I have no issues with colorful hair, but no one is more anal about the subject of the photo like the photographer is. Like, if I were editing a bridal party photo and I found that my eye truly was drawn to the bright blue hair (rather than Yknow, the bouquet or the dress or anything normal people look at), I&rsquo;d simply just tone the hair down slightly in editing. It&rsquo;s a negligible difference, but just enough not to draw your eye,&quot; they explained.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The hair won&#39;t ruin the photos, but it might still ruin the friendship.</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

People react to bride complaining that bridesmaid won't dye hair a 'natural' color.

For many people, having a wedding is the most elaborate and important photoshoot of their lives, and they will get the &quot;picture perfect&quot; portrait, no matter who they alienate in the process.A bride asked a wedding planning Facebook group for advice on how to handle an insubordinate bridesmaid with blue hair who wants to keep her hair color as it is for the wedding.People use their hairstyle as a way of expressing themselves, and this bride would rather her friend not be themselves on *her* special day.RedditThe &quot;WHHHHYYYYY?!?!?&quot; really sets the tone.The post was shared on the subreddit Wedding Shaming, where the bride was called both a Bridezilla and a terrible friend.&quot;Why dont brides like this just hire models for bridesmaids since all they care about is appearance,&quot; valathel wrote.&quot;There&#39;s nothing quite like a wedding to make make someone think they are suddenly in control of others&#39; bodies,&quot; Gadgetownsme agreed.Reddit user narkiesnarker explained that making sure the hair doesn&#39;t pull focus is the job of the photographer, not the bride.&quot;If you trust your photographer, you trust that you&rsquo;ll be the focal point. I have no issues with colorful hair, but no one is more anal about the subject of the photo like the photographer is. Like, if I were editing a bridal party photo and I found that my eye truly was drawn to the bright blue hair (rather than Yknow, the bouquet or the dress or anything normal people look at), I&rsquo;d simply just tone the hair down slightly in editing. It&rsquo;s a negligible difference, but just enough not to draw your eye,&quot; they explained.The hair won&#39;t ruin the photos, but it might still ruin the friendship.

For many people, having a wedding is the most elaborate and important photoshoot of their lives, and they will get the &quot;picture perfect&quot; portrait, no matter who they alienate in the process.  A bride asked a wedding planning...