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<p>Dating is dangerous minefield, so it&#39;s important to heed to the &quot;red flags&quot; that are waved in the early stages of a relationship. A <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/dvj5tl/what_is_your_red_flag_in_a_woman_or_man_when/">recent Reddit thread</a> asked the internet to share the signs from their significant other that tell them it&#39;s time to run.</p><p>If a person goes around calling themselves a &quot;crazy b*tch,&quot; do not pass go. Do not collect $200.</p><p><span style="font-family: BlinkMacSystemFont, -apple-system, &quot;Segoe UI&quot;, Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, &quot;Fira Sans&quot;, &quot;Droid Sans&quot;, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(74, 74, 74); font-size: 1.35em; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">1. </span><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Anticlimactic__/" style="font-family: BlinkMacSystemFont, -apple-system, &quot;Segoe UI&quot;, Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, &quot;Fira Sans&quot;, &quot;Droid Sans&quot;, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 1.35em; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">Anticlimactic__</a><span style="font-family: BlinkMacSystemFont, -apple-system, &quot;Segoe UI&quot;, Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, &quot;Fira Sans&quot;, &quot;Droid Sans&quot;, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; color: rgb(74, 74, 74); font-size: 1.35em; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: -0.02em;"> had the AUDACITY to talk to their dad.</span></p><blockquote> <p>Got jealous about every single call you received, even when it was from your family members. Accusing you of &quot;cheating with that whore you&#39;re on the phone with&quot; (even though that &quot;whore&quot; was your dad.)</p> <p>They ended up being a major cheater in the end.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>2. Even if it&#39;s in song, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/IAmNotMyName/">IAmNotMyName</a>?</h2><blockquote> <p>Refers to herself as a b*tch or a crazy b*tch.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><hr /><h2>3. Only text <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/AnUnimportantLife/">AnUnimportantLife</a> at normal human hours.</h2><blockquote> <p>Blowing up my phone at two in the morning is a big one for me. I don&#39;t mind so much if it&#39;s one or two messages late at night so long as they obviously know most people are asleep around then, but if I wake up to like a dozen or so texts where they&#39;re growing increasingly mad that I&#39;m not responding, it&#39;s a red flag.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>4. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Madrojian/">Madrojian</a>, do you accept this rose?</h2><blockquote> <p>Playing head games. We&#39;re not in high school, and you aren&#39;t on the Bachelorette. Be honest, sincere, and forthcoming, and we&#39;ll get along just fine. I&#39;m in my mid-thirties, and thus am too old and rickety to jump through hoops.</p> </blockquote><hr /><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>5. Don&#39;t be afraid to text <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Vandelay222/">Vandelay222</a> first.</h2><blockquote> <p>When I feel like I have to initiate every single contact between us and if I don&rsquo;t we simply won&rsquo;t talk that day.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>6. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/buzzystars/">buzzystars</a> is understanding, but don&#39;t take advantage of that.</h2><blockquote> <p>Being flaky with communication and/or meeting up. To an extent life can and will get in the way, but there&rsquo;s a certain level of enthusiasm you want to see from a potential partner and if they can&rsquo;t muster it during the honeymoon stage of dating, it&rsquo;s probably not going to improve later</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>7. A psychopathic plot, and even crazier that he told <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/danifrankenstein/">danifrankenstein</a>&#39;s dad.</h2><blockquote> <p>I dated a guy for 2 months that flat out told my dad (we started dating just before my birthday so they met for a birthday dinner) he wanted to get me pregnant so he could lock me in. I then found out he had a separate life when his other girlfriend found my phone number on my business page.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><hr /><h2>8. Imma let you finish, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TheBalance69/" style="font-family: BlinkMacSystemFont, -apple-system, &quot;Segoe UI&quot;, Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, &quot;Fira Sans&quot;, &quot;Droid Sans&quot;, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">TheBalance69</a>.</h2><p> </p><blockquote> <p>When they dodge answering questions or cut you off when you&#39;re talking. I give them a pass the first time because it might be nerves but if it keeps happening it&#39;s not ok.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>9. DON&#39;T YELL AT <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/dvj5tl/what_is_your_red_flag_in_a_woman_or_man_when/">STITCHER17</a></h2><p> </p><blockquote> <p>Yelling. My Pop was a yeller, as is my brother. Sends me into immediate panic.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>10. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/RipRonWrinkleFace/">RipRonWrinkleFace</a> with the real talk.</h2><blockquote> <p>Speaking from my experience from my one relationship I&rsquo;ve had so far that was abusive.......distrust.</p> <p>If the person is suspicious you are a cheater on no basis other than their own insecurity, runnnnnn! Omg run please. Save yourself the heart ache and degradation.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><hr /><h2>11. Don&#39;t forget to like and subscribe, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/TacticalMacaroon/" style="font-family: BlinkMacSystemFont, -apple-system, &quot;Segoe UI&quot;, Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, &quot;Fira Sans&quot;, &quot;Droid Sans&quot;, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 1.1rem; letter-spacing: -0.02em;">TacticalMacaroon</a>.</h2><blockquote> <p>Continually posting bits of our relationship on social media. I&rsquo;m dating the person, not their fan club.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>12. Turn and face the strange, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Alex_Sylvian/">Alex_Sylvian</a>.</h2><blockquote> <p>I knew this one girl who, on our first and only date, just would not shut up about how heartbroken she was that David Bowie had died two days ago. Every time I would try to steer the conversation elsewhere, she would say, &quot;Oh yeah, that reminds me of the time David did XYZ.&quot; At first it was endearing, but it got annoying really quickly. And that was the end of that. I still sometimes wonder if I had caught her at a different time, if things would have gone differently.</p> </blockquote><hr /><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>13. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/WhatThePhoque/">WhatThePhoque</a> wants you to have your own life.</h2><blockquote> <p>When the girl doesn&rsquo;t have any desire to develop her own life/career/passions. I want someone that I know that has a drive to go in life on her own and find her own happiness.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>14. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/outskirtsofalderaan/">outskirtsofalderaan</a> is bloody right.</h2><blockquote> <p>Acting super uncomfortable or grossed out when i mention my period.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>15. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/heyimfreezing/">heyimfreezing</a>&#39;s ex was catty.</h2><blockquote> <p>My ex once got jealous of a cat. I got a little kitten while we were dating and he was over at my place (2 days after getting the kitten). I was pretty excited to have a kitty, and if you&#39;ve ever had a small cat - they demand a lot of attention. So obviously, I played with the kitten while he was over and he got jealous. Of. A. Fricking. Cat. Thanks god we&#39;re through, and my cat is still by my side :)</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><hr /><h2>16. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/-eDgAR-/">-eDgAR-</a> with the honest truth.</h2><blockquote> <p>They tell you they don&#39;t like you having friends of the opposite sex and start trying to control who you hang out with.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>17. Oh honey, <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Reggie_yeetye/">Reggie_yeetye</a>.</h2><blockquote> <p>It sounds kinda weird but I didn&rsquo;t like it when the pet names would start early. Like, I wasn&rsquo;t even DATING this guy&mdash;just talking&mdash;and he was already calling me &ldquo;sweetheart&rdquo; and &ldquo;honey.&rdquo;</p> <p>There were other reasons we didn&rsquo;t talk for much longer after that, but it was the initial red flag.</p> </blockquote><hr /><h2>18. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/altos97/">altos97</a> lives in the now.</h2><blockquote> <p>If a girl keeps checking her phone every 10 min, if u have the need to scroll through your[Instagram] every 10 min while on a date u have a serious problem.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

18 people share the 'red flags' that are dealbreakers in dating.

Dating is dangerous minefield, so it&#39;s important to heed to the &quot;red flags&quot; that are waved in the early stages of a relationship. A recent Reddit thread asked the internet to share the signs from their significant other that tell them it&#39;s time to run.If a person goes around calling themselves a &quot;crazy b*tch,&quot; do not pass go. Do not collect $200.1. Anticlimactic__ had the AUDACITY to talk to their dad. Got jealous about every single call you received, even when it was from your family members. Accusing you of &quot;cheating with that whore you&#39;re on the phone with&quot; (even though that &quot;whore&quot; was your dad.) They ended up being a major cheater in the end. 2. Even if it&#39;s in song, IAmNotMyName? Refers to herself as a b*tch or a crazy b*tch. 3. Only text AnUnimportantLife at normal human hours. Blowing up my phone at two in the morning is a big one for me. I don&#39;t mind so much if it&#39;s one or two messages late at night so long as they obviously know most people are asleep around then, but if I wake up to like a dozen or so texts where they&#39;re growing increasingly mad that I&#39;m not responding, it&#39;s a red flag. 4. Madrojian, do you accept this rose? Playing head games. We&#39;re not in high school, and you aren&#39;t on the Bachelorette. Be honest, sincere, and forthcoming, and we&#39;ll get along just fine. I&#39;m in my mid-thirties, and thus am too old and rickety to jump through hoops. 5. Don&#39;t be afraid to text Vandelay222 first. When I feel like I have to initiate every single contact between us and if I don&rsquo;t we simply won&rsquo;t talk that day. 6. buzzystars is understanding, but don&#39;t take advantage of that. Being flaky with communication and/or meeting up. To an extent life can and will get in the way, but there&rsquo;s a certain level of enthusiasm you want to see from a potential partner and if they can&rsquo;t muster it during the honeymoon stage of dating, it&rsquo;s probably not going to improve later 7. A psychopathic plot, and even crazier that he told danifrankenstein&#39;s dad. I dated a guy for 2 months that flat out told my dad (we started dating just before my birthday so they met for a birthday dinner) he wanted to get me pregnant so he could lock me in. I then found out he had a separate life when his other girlfriend found my phone number on my business page. 8. Imma let you finish, TheBalance69.  When they dodge answering questions or cut you off when you&#39;re talking. I give them a pass the first time because it might be nerves but if it keeps happening it&#39;s not ok. 9. DON&#39;T YELL AT STITCHER17  Yelling. My Pop was a yeller, as is my brother. Sends me into immediate panic. 10. RipRonWrinkleFace with the real talk. Speaking from my experience from my one relationship I&rsquo;ve had so far that was abusive.......distrust. If the person is suspicious you are a cheater on no basis other than their own insecurity, runnnnnn! Omg run please. Save yourself the heart ache and degradation. 11. Don&#39;t forget to like and subscribe, TacticalMacaroon. Continually posting bits of our relationship on social media. I&rsquo;m dating the person, not their fan club. 12. Turn and face the strange, Alex_Sylvian. I knew this one girl who, on our first and only date, just would not shut up about how heartbroken she was that David Bowie had died two days ago. Every time I would try to steer the conversation elsewhere, she would say, &quot;Oh yeah, that reminds me of the time David did XYZ.&quot; At first it was endearing, but it got annoying really quickly. And that was the end of that. I still sometimes wonder if I had caught her at a different time, if things would have gone differently. 13. WhatThePhoque wants you to have your own life. When the girl doesn&rsquo;t have any desire to develop her own life/career/passions. I want someone that I know that has a drive to go in life on her own and find her own happiness. 14. outskirtsofalderaan is bloody right. Acting super uncomfortable or grossed out when i mention my period. 15. heyimfreezing&#39;s ex was catty. My ex once got jealous of a cat. I got a little kitten while we were dating and he was over at my place (2 days after getting the kitten). I was pretty excited to have a kitty, and if you&#39;ve ever had a small cat - they demand a lot of attention. So obviously, I played with the kitten while he was over and he got jealous. Of. A. Fricking. Cat. Thanks god we&#39;re through, and my cat is still by my side :) 16. -eDgAR- with the honest truth. They tell you they don&#39;t like you having friends of the opposite sex and start trying to control who you hang out with. 17. Oh honey, Reggie_yeetye. It sounds kinda weird but I didn&rsquo;t like it when the pet names would start early. Like, I wasn&rsquo;t even DATING this guy&mdash;just talking&mdash;and he was already calling me &ldquo;sweetheart&rdquo; and &ldquo;honey.&rdquo; There were other reasons we didn&rsquo;t talk for much longer after that, but it was the initial red flag. 18. altos97 lives in the now. If a girl keeps checking her phone every 10 min, if u have the need to scroll through your[Instagram] every 10 min while on a date u have a serious problem. 

Dating is dangerous minefield, so it&#39;s important to heed to the &quot;red flags&quot; that are waved in the early stages of a relationship. A recent Reddit thread asked the internet to share the signs from their significant other that...