The promise "til death do us part" fails to account for all the challenges that precede death. Marriage is hard work: people grow apart over the years, or in some cases, people don't grow at all, causing it's own set of problems. Women on Reddit opened up about the issues that lead them to leave their spouses after decades of marriage, at it's truly a miracle that people ever make it at all.
When my then husband blamed me for the weather.
Everything that was not perfect was always my fault. « You did not check/remember/change/evaluate/bring/ensure [something] »
It had been so unreasonable for so long time, but pointing me with his finger, when it was raining was the last straw. I made the decision to gently push him out of my life. Just to live peacefully.
The most infuriating thing today is that he tells everybody, how perfect I was and never made a mistake. Gee, thanks.
We were married just short of 20 years.-sitruspuserrin