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<p>If a boyfriend is douchey and toxic in one way, odds are that he&#39;s going to be douchey and toxic in another. Twitter user <a href="https://twitter.com/ScholefieldZoe/status/1159754761664696320">Zoe Scholefield </a>shared a text from her ex that had an exhaustive list of twelve rules he insisted she follow on a night out without him. Lo and behold, the controlling creepazoid was even more micro-managing than helicopter mom with a series of 12 rules she MUST follow on a night out without him.</p><p>&quot;Funny how my ex sent me stuff like this then has the audacity to cheat on me,&quot; she wrote.</p><figure class="image"><div class="image-container"><img alt="" data-attribution="Twitter: @ScholefieldZoe" data-attribution-url="https://twitter.com/ScholefieldZoe/status/1159754761664696320" height="1290" src="//cdn.someecards.com/posts/ex-iePE4z.jpeg" width="972" /></div><div class="image-attribution"><a href="https://twitter.com/ScholefieldZoe/status/1159754761664696320">Twitter: @ScholefieldZoe</a></div></figure><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>A simple &quot;have fun! Love you!&quot; would have sufficed.</p><p>The rules are as follows:</p><blockquote> <p>1) Don&#39;t dance like a slag like in reflex</p> <p>2) Don&#39;t get too drunk</p> <p>3) No boys and if anyone comes up to you and talks to you tell them you have a boyfriend</p> <p>4) Look after your drink at all times to make sure no one puts owt in it</p> <p>5) Stick with ____ or _____ all time not _____ by looks of last night mostly _____</p> <p>6) No one but you 4 in your room besides _____ but he can&#39;t sleep</p> </blockquote><p>Believe it or not, that&#39;s just half of it.</p><blockquote> <p>7) You can&#39;t go in anyone else&#39;s room</p> <p>8) You let me know everything that happens to be ready to explain stories</p> <p>9) Always send me photos of front and back of what you are wearing so I can approve and say whether or not I think you should wear it</p> <p>10) Even when I&#39;m asleep text me to tell me things so I can see in morning</p> <p>11) If you find time call me or [FaceTime] me but let me know in advance</p> <p>12) If you want a video of room before you sleep to prove no one else is there and you are off to sleep</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The tweet has gone massively viral, with over 34,000 likes.</p><div class="oembedall-container sec-iframe sec-oembed-iframe"><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p lang="en" dir="ltr">Funny how my ex sent me stuff like this then has the audacity to cheat on me😍😍 <a href="https://t.co/nA28O86u4k">pic.twitter.com/nA28O86u4k</a></p>&mdash; Zoe Scholefield🦋 (@ScholefieldZoe) <a href="https://twitter.com/ScholefieldZoe/status/1159754761664696320?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 9, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>The masses agree: this guy sucks.</p><div> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr" lang="und"><a href="https://t.co/soTgb0rIrf">pic.twitter.com/soTgb0rIrf</a></p> &mdash; 🔴 Ryan (@ryaanm98) <a href="https://twitter.com/ryaanm98/status/1159889350915756033?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 9, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async="" charset="utf-8" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">The &lsquo;call or FaceTime me but let me know in advance&rsquo; bit was a clear giveaway here 😭 this is all vile!</p> &mdash; Sam Richardson (@samrichardson_) <a href="https://twitter.com/samrichardson_/status/1159854103062896642?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 9, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async="" charset="utf-8" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><p>This behavior isn&#39;t just horrible: it also abusive.</p><div> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Emotional and verbal abuse can have short-term and long-lasting effects that are just as serious as the effects of physical abuse. Emotional and verbal abuse includes insults and attempts to isolate or control you.<br /> <br /> Domestic violence bab, you had a lucky escape x</p> &mdash; HH. (@hollyhaless) <a href="https://twitter.com/hollyhaless/status/1159954027641298950?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 9, 2019</a></blockquote> </div><div> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Don&#39;t know who needs to hear this but if your partner lists even one of those things then you should show them the door. Control isn&#39;t affection or love</p> &mdash; Ashley Nivens Aka NegroDamus (@AshleyNivens) <a href="https://twitter.com/AshleyNivens/status/1159855861260521472?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 9, 2019</a></blockquote> <script async="" charset="utf-8" src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"></script></div><div className="ad-splitter"></div><p>If your boyfriend sends you any such &quot;rules&quot;&mdash;whether it&#39;s one or twelve or one hundred&mdash;it&#39;s not okay, and it&#39;s not your fault. If you need, call</p><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Guy sends girlfriend list of 12 rules to follow on girl's night out, while he cheats on her.

If a boyfriend is douchey and toxic in one way, odds are that he&#39;s going to be douchey and toxic in another. Twitter user Zoe Scholefield shared a text from her ex that had an exhaustive list of twelve rules he insisted she follow on a night out without him. Lo and behold, the controlling creepazoid was even more micro-managing than helicopter mom with a series of 12 rules she MUST follow on a night out without him.&quot;Funny how my ex sent me stuff like this then has the audacity to cheat on me,&quot; she wrote.Twitter: @ScholefieldZoeA simple &quot;have fun! Love you!&quot; would have sufficed.The rules are as follows: 1) Don&#39;t dance like a slag like in reflex 2) Don&#39;t get too drunk 3) No boys and if anyone comes up to you and talks to you tell them you have a boyfriend 4) Look after your drink at all times to make sure no one puts owt in it 5) Stick with ____ or _____ all time not _____ by looks of last night mostly _____ 6) No one but you 4 in your room besides _____ but he can&#39;t sleep Believe it or not, that&#39;s just half of it. 7) You can&#39;t go in anyone else&#39;s room 8) You let me know everything that happens to be ready to explain stories 9) Always send me photos of front and back of what you are wearing so I can approve and say whether or not I think you should wear it 10) Even when I&#39;m asleep text me to tell me things so I can see in morning 11) If you find time call me or [FaceTime] me but let me know in advance 12) If you want a video of room before you sleep to prove no one else is there and you are off to sleep The tweet has gone massively viral, with over 34,000 likes.Funny how my ex sent me stuff like this then has the audacity to cheat on me😍😍 pic.twitter.com/nA28O86u4k&mdash; Zoe Scholefield🦋 (@ScholefieldZoe) August 9, 2019 The masses agree: this guy sucks.  pic.twitter.com/soTgb0rIrf &mdash; 🔴 Ryan (@ryaanm98) August 9, 2019   The &lsquo;call or FaceTime me but let me know in advance&rsquo; bit was a clear giveaway here 😭 this is all vile! &mdash; Sam Richardson (@samrichardson_) August 9, 2019 This behavior isn&#39;t just horrible: it also abusive.  Emotional and verbal abuse can have short-term and long-lasting effects that are just as serious as the effects of physical abuse. Emotional and verbal abuse includes insults and attempts to isolate or control you.  Domestic violence bab, you had a lucky escape x &mdash; HH. (@hollyhaless) August 9, 2019   Don&#39;t know who needs to hear this but if your partner lists even one of those things then you should show them the door. Control isn&#39;t affection or love &mdash; Ashley Nivens Aka NegroDamus (@AshleyNivens) August 9, 2019 If your boyfriend sends you any such &quot;rules&quot;&mdash;whether it&#39;s one or twelve or one hundred&mdash;it&#39;s not okay, and it&#39;s not your fault. If you need, call

If a boyfriend is douchey and toxic in one way, odds are that he&#39;s going to be douchey and toxic in another. Twitter user Zoe Scholefield shared a text from her ex that had an exhaustive list of twelve rules he insisted she follow on a...