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<p>Posting photos of yourself is your own prerogative. If you&#39;re happy with it and want it on the internet nobody should tell you otherwise. Unless of course, you&#39;re a woman celebrating your body then men will feel that masculine urge to comment on your body. What happens when it&#39;s a friend making rude comments about your wife&#39;s body to you behind her back?</p><h2>We see how one man responds on a <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnt3pw/aita_for_telling_my_friend_his_wife_couldnt_pull/">popular Reddit thread</a> in the Am I The A**hole Subreddit where a man asks if he was wrong to tell his friend his wife couldn&#39;t pull off a swimsuit.</h2><blockquote> <p>AITA for telling my friend his wife couldn&rsquo;t pull off a bathing suit</p> </blockquote><h2>Behind every confident queen is an insecure man who will try and bring her down.</h2><blockquote> <p>I have been informed by my friend that my wife seems to have a lot of body confidence on a few occasions. She posts a lot of photos on Instagram in dresses, crop tops, and now that it is summertime - swimsuits. I&rsquo;ve never had a problem with it. I think most girls in their mid-twenties do the same thing, but my friend has been making weird remarks to me about her posts since we got married.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Ah yes, OP&#39;s friend is one of those guys.</h2><blockquote> <p>He essentially says her posts are too provocative for a married woman and that she&rsquo;s putting herself online like she&rsquo;s a single woman. He also makes the point that most married women do not post photos as she does and his wife would never &ldquo;disrespect him&rdquo; by posting photos like this.</p> </blockquote><h2>This guy is a total freak show.</h2><blockquote> <p>I brought it up to my wife once and she just laughed and said he was weird. I agreed and haven&rsquo;t said anything about it to her since. Recently a group of us got together at the lake. My wife wore a bikini which I thought was normal but my friend thought differently.</p> </blockquote><h2>Respectfully, tell your friend he can just not look if it makes him uncomfortable.</h2><blockquote> <p>He made a comment in front of us guys about her a** being out and asked me if she just liked to make everyone uncomfortable and have people stare at her. Of course, he brought it back around to his wife saying how she dresses respectfully in front of other guys. His wife had a one-piece I think but wore a coverup most of the time we were there.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2>Respectfully, you can also stick up for your wife without doing that to an innocent bystander.</h2><blockquote> <p>My wife wasn&rsquo;t wearing a thong bathing suit bottom so I honestly don&rsquo;t know what his deal was. There were other girls there in two pieces beside her. I had honestly had enough of his incessant continuous comments about my wife and how he was continually comparing her to his more conservatively dressed wife so I said, &ldquo;Your wife just dresses like that because she can&rsquo;t pull off a swimsuit. Stop fixating on my wife bro it&rsquo;s getting old fast.&rdquo;</p> </blockquote><h2>Two men attack each other by commenting on each other&#39;s wives&#39; bodies. I wonder who the a**hole is here?</h2><blockquote> <p>I know his wife hadn&rsquo;t caused anything and probably didn&rsquo;t deserve that but it did get him to shut up. We actually haven&rsquo;t talked since then to which I don&rsquo;t really care. We&rsquo;ll probably run into each other the next time we have a friend throw an outing though. I do feel like his wife didn&rsquo;t deserve that, even if she didn&rsquo;t know I said it, so I&rsquo;m wondering if I&rsquo;m an a**hole. I don&rsquo;t really want to apologize to him before he apologizes for all of his comments but if Reddit thinks it&#39;s the consensus I might.</p> </blockquote><div className="ad-splitter"></div><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnt3pw/comment/ie91hrp/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">jrm1102</a> knows who sucks here.</h2><blockquote> <p>ESH (Everyone Sucks Here), well the husbands do. You should have stood up for your wife and not insulted his.</p> </blockquote><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnt3pw/comment/ie91t6c/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">joanclaytonesq</a> says when they go low OP can go just as low.</h2><blockquote> <p>ESH. There were other ways to get this guy to shut up without bringing his wife into it. She had nothing to do with it and you just stooped to hai level by making inappropriate comments on his wife&#39;s appearance.</p> </blockquote><h2><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/vnt3pw/comment/ie90jxq/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web2x&amp;context=3">Solid_Quote9133</a> knows who deserves the apology.</h2><blockquote> <p>ESH don&#39;t insult the wife she got nothing to do with this.</p> <p>Tell him to stop being a sexist a**</p> <p>Apologize to her not the sexist jerk</p> </blockquote><h2>OP you can do better than stooping to this guy&#39;s sexist level. Maybe tell him if women make him so uncomfortable he should just stay close his eyes around them.</h2><div className="ad-splitter"></div>

Man asks if he was wrong to defend wife by making sexist comments about friend's wife.

Posting photos of yourself is your own prerogative. If you&#39;re happy with it and want it on the internet nobody should tell you otherwise. Unless of course, you&#39;re a woman celebrating your body then men will feel that masculine urge to comment on your body. What happens when it&#39;s a friend making rude comments about your wife&#39;s body to you behind her back?We see how one man responds on a popular Reddit thread in the Am I The A**hole Subreddit where a man asks if he was wrong to tell his friend his wife couldn&#39;t pull off a swimsuit. AITA for telling my friend his wife couldn&rsquo;t pull off a bathing suit Behind every confident queen is an insecure man who will try and bring her down. I have been informed by my friend that my wife seems to have a lot of body confidence on a few occasions. She posts a lot of photos on Instagram in dresses, crop tops, and now that it is summertime - swimsuits. I&rsquo;ve never had a problem with it. I think most girls in their mid-twenties do the same thing, but my friend has been making weird remarks to me about her posts since we got married. Ah yes, OP&#39;s friend is one of those guys. He essentially says her posts are too provocative for a married woman and that she&rsquo;s putting herself online like she&rsquo;s a single woman. He also makes the point that most married women do not post photos as she does and his wife would never &ldquo;disrespect him&rdquo; by posting photos like this. This guy is a total freak show. I brought it up to my wife once and she just laughed and said he was weird. I agreed and haven&rsquo;t said anything about it to her since. Recently a group of us got together at the lake. My wife wore a bikini which I thought was normal but my friend thought differently. Respectfully, tell your friend he can just not look if it makes him uncomfortable. He made a comment in front of us guys about her a** being out and asked me if she just liked to make everyone uncomfortable and have people stare at her. Of course, he brought it back around to his wife saying how she dresses respectfully in front of other guys. His wife had a one-piece I think but wore a coverup most of the time we were there. Respectfully, you can also stick up for your wife without doing that to an innocent bystander. My wife wasn&rsquo;t wearing a thong bathing suit bottom so I honestly don&rsquo;t know what his deal was. There were other girls there in two pieces beside her. I had honestly had enough of his incessant continuous comments about my wife and how he was continually comparing her to his more conservatively dressed wife so I said, &ldquo;Your wife just dresses like that because she can&rsquo;t pull off a swimsuit. Stop fixating on my wife bro it&rsquo;s getting old fast.&rdquo; Two men attack each other by commenting on each other&#39;s wives&#39; bodies. I wonder who the a**hole is here? I know his wife hadn&rsquo;t caused anything and probably didn&rsquo;t deserve that but it did get him to shut up. We actually haven&rsquo;t talked since then to which I don&rsquo;t really care. We&rsquo;ll probably run into each other the next time we have a friend throw an outing though. I do feel like his wife didn&rsquo;t deserve that, even if she didn&rsquo;t know I said it, so I&rsquo;m wondering if I&rsquo;m an a**hole. I don&rsquo;t really want to apologize to him before he apologizes for all of his comments but if Reddit thinks it&#39;s the consensus I might. jrm1102 knows who sucks here. ESH (Everyone Sucks Here), well the husbands do. You should have stood up for your wife and not insulted his. joanclaytonesq says when they go low OP can go just as low. ESH. There were other ways to get this guy to shut up without bringing his wife into it. She had nothing to do with it and you just stooped to hai level by making inappropriate comments on his wife&#39;s appearance. Solid_Quote9133 knows who deserves the apology. ESH don&#39;t insult the wife she got nothing to do with this. Tell him to stop being a sexist a** Apologize to her not the sexist jerk OP you can do better than stooping to this guy&#39;s sexist level. Maybe tell him if women make him so uncomfortable he should just stay close his eyes around them.

Posting photos of yourself is your own prerogative. If you&#39;re happy with it and want it on the internet nobody should tell you otherwise. Unless of course, you&#39;re a woman celebrating your body then men will feel that masculine urge...